I [24M] started spinning a plate who I’ve known since high school. On Sunday we went bowling, grabbed drinks, ubered to my place and then forked.

Never in a million years did I think I’d wake up next to her - what did it was my new ability to respond effectively to her shit tests:

  • Are you talking to any girls? Me: Which one? I’ve slept with like 20 today.

  • What was that one girl’s name you were talking to? Me: It was either Carly, Rachel, Megan, Sarah or (insert white girl name). Do any of those ring a bell?

  • I didn’t bring any stuff to stay over, I didn’t realize we’d be drinking. Me: No worries, I don’t allow girls over past midnight so we can get you an Uber home. Plus, you didn’t bring a sleeping bag.

Hopefully you guys find this useful. Anyways, she kept wanting to pillow talk after we forked and asking me if I liked her, etc. Hinting that I used her. I kept being vague with her and telling her things need to go with the flow, and to stop asking questions (I was visibly tired)...

...so how do I respond to these questions like “do you like me... where is this going?”

I want to keep a balance of keeping her interested without saying too much or too little and without having her skeptical of my intentions.