What communities do you think are genuinely helpful for 'going your own way' types?

Million-Suns · 2019-12-06T13:44:15+00:00

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2019-12-06T15:13:13+00:00

Dude, fuck defining yourself around romantic failure . Are you an artist, an athlete, an adventurer, a warrior, a scientist, or anything else that you’re passionate about? THAT is your community.

I think it’s ok to be wistful you didn't find your 22-year old perfect unicorn but if that train has sailed (to quote Austin Powers), don’t waste your life on self-pity or resentment. Relentlessly chase down the things that give you value and that make you feel alive. And that’s where you’ll be happiest too.

tritter211 · 2019-12-06T15:50:47+00:00

There aren't any communities that will exclusively help you "going your own way" that isn't also mired with controversy.

Your best solution is to just find niche communities based on your specific interest and start from there.

What hobbies do you like?

mtgordon · 2019-12-06T13:49:58+00:00

r/SingleAndHappy

Not gendered, but that’s not necessarily a bad thing.

DontTouchTheCancer · 2019-12-06T15:18:10+00:00

Just go find communities germane to your interests. There's no need to harp on or have a community talking about why you can't deal with men. By definition it will get incel-y very quick.

Workaholiconew · 2019-12-06T16:54:35+00:00

I quite like the gaming and carpintery communities (in reddit or otherwise) great dudes, helpful too. There is a woman here and there, but I would do as I always do and forget they exist, not interact. In the worst case scenario, You can always find another community about the same subject.

2019-12-06T21:36:21+00:00

Everything is useful, and not 1 thing is the bible.

Read everything, the process through your thinking machine (brain + mind), make your own decisions.

RaspberryInk · 2019-12-07T17:22:56+00:00

/r/mgtow2 is A LOT better than MGTOW. It still has it's share of toxicity, but if you keep your focus on building a healthy sense of self, you can find a lot of good stuff in there.

/r/maleempowerment is decent. MRA subs in general are all about hating on women, which is futile, misdirected, and self-destructive. maleempowerment (mostly) turns the focus on personal empowerment, which is where your real freedom will come from.

More importantly, I would just recommend joining hobby/interest subs. Join a community of people who like the things that you're passionate about. Don't have hobbies or interests? Work on that--life is going to be long and hard if you can't find things you love, not to mention without personal interests, you really can't "go your own way." Actually going your own way isn't in an MGTOW sub (even a good one)... it's in a mountaineering sub, or a cycling sub, or a music sub, or technology, or whatever your thing is.

Bekiala · 2019-12-06T14:55:50+00:00

As, sorta, a person who has gone my own way (boy that is convuluted), I like the subreddit, decidingtobebetter . . . .hmmm . . . although I'm not sure that is what you want as you want to talk to people who are single . . . . . . maybe we need to start a constructivelysingle subreddit. I would join such a subreddit.

For awhile I thought the ForeverAlone subreddit was about happily single people. Oops.

Edit: I just realized this was just for men. Ugh

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G77R23D · 2019-12-06T14:06:49+00:00

How old are you and why did you choose to go your own way?

doesntpostnuttin · 2019-12-06T14:39:28+00:00

R/MGTOW2 Is a good subreddit that doesn’t get into the women hating, more a discussion for like minded men who are independent and doing their own thing.

Sorry idk how to make it link on my phone.

dylang92 · 2019-12-06T15:18:18+00:00

Are you honestly “going your own way” or “going your own way and hope pussy comes by”? Because if it’s the latter even slightly then honestly just self improve until you get your pussy and if you can’t then group therapy or something after that. If you’re the former, then just stay off reddit and live your life. No community is healthy from what I can tell, meeting people in real life is probably the best you can do.

2019-12-06T17:07:13+00:00

Hobby groups

MikepGrey · 2019-12-06T23:38:22+00:00

Make your own sub then, set the rules get moderators and keep it classy

bonusfruit · 2019-12-07T02:48:56+00:00

r/financialindependence . Every mgtow should be working towards it

DaphneDK42 · 2019-12-07T03:50:42+00:00

/r/digitalnomad/

/r/fire

Mr_KenSpeckle · 2019-12-07T07:30:03+00:00

MGTOW without the woman-hating is basically stoicism. Try searching for some stoicism forums.

Undead_Chronic · 2019-12-06T17:59:53+00:00

Wahhhh mean posts about women

Let me know when you are ready to talk about the family courts mr 'go my own way'

churnthrowaway123456 · 2019-12-06T14:26:08+00:00

How does anyone take "Men Going Their Own Way" to mean anything except a euphemism for being homosexual?

k995 · 2019-12-06T14:42:58+00:00

Not MGTOW thats toxic, r/MGTOW2 is decent

DubsPackage · 2019-12-06T20:43:33+00:00

mgtow2

men's rights

minimalism

FIRE (financial independence retire early)

Meetups/Dinner parties

Hiking/Biking/Offroad/Car Clubs

Expat

Gaming

ITCareers

Trucking

Dogs

Keto/IF/OMAD

NorthrnSwede · 2019-12-06T21:26:44+00:00

r/menslib

Title	What communities do you think are genuinely helpful for 'going your own way' types?
Author	Cursed-Sword
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Comments	66
Date	December 6, 2019 1:39 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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