I'm new to this sub so I hope this isn't off topic or anything but something I keep hearing about how women are most attracted to muscular tall men. This may be what is generally considered the most attractive man, the ideal body, but it isn't a realistic expectation for most women. Its similar to how the ideal women for most men has big tits and is super skinny, it's an ideal fantasy, not realistic expectation.

I think that looks matter a lot, but no normal woman is going to turn down someone just because they don't have a six pack. If you do have that ideal body then sure it helps a lot, but it's not a necessity for most women.

I think that the situation you're meeting in matters a lot, in a club for example a tall guy with a great body is going to stand out and get a lot of attention because there's little room for talking or getting to know someone, it's mostly about looks. Joining a hobby class and asking someone out there is much less about your looks and much more about your personality.

Again I'm new here so please let me know if I'm doing anything wrong. I'd love to know what people think.