Continue improving yourself but let go of the idea that the hot girls who passed you up are going to suffer.

asianmasaccount · 2015-03-05T20:28:53+00:00

legit post. I have noticed this type of thinking also on this forum.

My grandfather used to tell me this chinese story (im asian america haha) about this famous general that was bullied heavily and humiliated by this gang in his hometown. Becuse of this he goes off to the capitol and becomes a solider rather than staying as a farmer, which was considered the better path. Eventually he fights many wars for China and comes back a powerful victorious general.

He visits his hometown with his sword at his side and his armor on his back, riding his horse, and with all these loyal soldiers behind him. He asks that his childhood bullies be brought to him. Everyone in the town begs him to reconsider getting his revenge, as these men had now become regular members of the community and were no longer the brash kids they once were. He steadfastly refuses and demands they be brought to him. Finally they are dragged to him sobbing and terrified and immediately prostrate themselves on the ground and beg for mercy with their crying families at their sides. The general walks up to them and, rather than slaying them on the spot like most expected,, he carefully helps each of them up, dusts them off, and sincerely thanks them for motivating him to achieve the success he did. Afterwards he rewarded each of them with land and those gold boat things that were currency back then.

Haha thats a really cheesy story I know, but I really took it to heart. Its the process thats all the fun anyways. The point isnt to have this moment of superiority like in the story, but rather to live a good enough and happy enough life so that you feel genuinely grateful for the negative experiences in your past that motivated you to accomplish what you have.

Edit: historical allegories have sketchy details through retelling haha. But here it is: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Han_Xin

MentORPHEUS · 2015-03-05T20:17:47+00:00

This probably won't be a popular post, but it needed to be said so thanks.

I'm in my 40s, and roll my eyes at all the 20-somethings going on about how all women expire like a gallon of milk at age 30, but no big deal because they'll be spinning 18-24 year old plates till the end of time.

Stick with the self-improvement, limit criticism of others to the constructive type, and expect your worldview to evolve enough that your older self will cringe at certain aspects of your younger self, especially the false bravado.

Transmigratory · 2015-03-05T22:04:01+00:00

The Red Pill should be like it is in the Matrix: you see things for what they really are. It isn't a pill where once you "unlock" the truth all who wronged you will suffer.

WoahScienceCool · 2015-03-05T20:59:37+00:00

Good for you but Ive seen plenty of whats mentioned on TRP happen IRL.

My own mother being one of these girls. Shes dated literal billionaires, traveled on private yahcts and jets, flown all over all the world probably three times already, had fancy cars bought for her, etc. Shes dated guys with mansions in elite cirles within LA and South Florida, one guy had 19 ferraris amongst various other luxury/sport vehicles (no I am not lying or trolling).

She lived the life until her mid-30's or so. Now she doesnt have a penny to her name, lives in a crummy studio apartment, watching Netflix by herself every night and drives a (once, former glorious) Mercedes Benz from the year 2007 with engine and other maintence problems up the ass- a sign of the former and now decayed glory years.

All her female acquaintances are going through the exact same thing. My mom specifically says she is extremely bitter about the "you can have it all!" slogan preached by feminists to her throughout her whole life- that its a lie, that its setting women up to be miserable. She and many women take it quite literally. Not one guy was ever good enough for her, there was always some flaw, but she wanted to "have it all!" as she was told to strive for her whole life. Now she has nothing.

I say this not to validate bitter TRPers, but to stop women like my mom from making dangerous mistakes and heading down the wrong path. If women want to make their own independent money- great, time to start building up your resume, get some good work experience, and start climbing the corporate ladder. Dont be some Bottle Girl or Escort where you can ball-out for ten years and then have nothing to show for it on your resume when you become too old to live that kind of lifestyle and too haggerd to find a man now to provide for you and give you that stable, family lifestyle. You need to beware of your biological clock if you want to have kids. On the flip side, if they want to marry a provider for resources/kids/stability, they need to realize that not every guy is going to be perfect in every way, and that men of all races, backgrounds and different sized bank accounts have problems and flaws to some extent, and that some of these are going to have to be overlooked.

Point being, women can NOT have it all. Its impossible, and the thought process is dangerous. There is an experation date on womens value, for some its as late as when they turn 40, for others its as immediate as the Freshmen 15, some never had much value at all. Regardless, the mentality of "you can have it all!" and get away with it is dangerous and destructive, particularly to those who plan on having kids and have legit expiration dates on their uteruses, many as early as their low-thirties. Again, I say this not to validate TRPers, but because its sad to see this play out IRL. Most end up just how TRP describes it, and it pains me to see my own mother go through it, though she has to live with her decisions and she has now accepted that. I will fight against proponents of the "you can have it all!" garbage mindset for as long as Im here on TRP, because its affected me on a very deep and personal level all throughout my childhood and well into my mid-twenties now. Its toxic and has no place in stable, western societies.

epixs · 2015-03-05T22:53:00+00:00

Can confirm, I work part time at a country club as a personal trainer. I train all kinds of 30-40 year old women who grew up with wealthy old money, went to college and joined sororities , rode the cc, got married to some chump , and now pay 75-100$ per training session to stay fit .

Life isint fair, these same women tell me all the shit they do to stay attractive looking . From plastic surgery, dermatology appointments, and deep tissue body massages . They have everything, but I can tell you this...they aren't happy. I see it everyday , they got the 90K Cadillac SUV and the 60-70k a year country club membership but still aren't happy.

Once you've rode that much dick and lived that college alpha context life style they are constantly reminded of what they miss.

So much more I could go on with this, but on my phone.

Bottom line: they could care less of the nerd or loser who turned alpha, they aren't impressed if they can't leach or jump onto his status level. They are end up comparing with each other and thus never happy.

Perfect example, a client yesterday was complaining to me how her old friend just bought a lake side vacation home in the vineyards, like wtf who gives a fuck...but the fact that she didn't have one genuinely ruined her day. Dumb bitch.

Tricky_Dick_ · 2015-03-05T19:43:22+00:00

On the outside (facebook) they will put up a happy front "My hubby surprised me with a movie date for valentines day!" but the truth is that she is no longer sexually attracted to her husband and she wishes she was 20 again because hot guys don't hit on her anymore.

byronshadow · 2015-03-05T23:32:53+00:00

There are captain save-a-hos everywhere. A single mom I used to work with who had three sons(from three dads) got engaged to a financially stable army lifer.

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giffengoods · 2015-03-05T21:01:25+00:00

Not only is wishing ill on others bad for you, but in this situation, it likely won't happen.

and

lot of these girls will retain their looks because they actually do care for their appearance, many of them shop at Whole Foods stores (because they come from rich families) and if needed, they can get surgeries to keep their looks. Now once they hit 30, they won't stress out that much about finding a man because they will still have their options. For every guy decides these girls are sluts unworthy of marriage, there are at least 5 rich guys who will more than happily marry this kind of woman.

These two statements are very true. Unfortunately, karma isn't real. The world favors those that take action. I've rejected a few girls, and I have felt bad about rejecting them, but they weren't my type, or I wasn't as interested in them as they were in me. I have never regretted rejecting them. I rejected them at that time. If they turned into super models, I still wouldn't regret having had rejecting them because I rejected them at a past time, when I wasn't interested.

But, like you said, hot girls are the winner at life. You can't blame them for rejecting you either (for either not being good enough or approaching in a weird way), they don't owe you anything.

The faster you learn to self-improve for yourself, and not comparing yourself to others, the happier you will be.

On a side note, I once did have a girl tell me that she regretted having had rejected me for a date. She was a washed up slut, and not as attractive anymore, and I really didn't give two shits about her at that point. I just told her that that was really sweet, and walked away.

ProductivityMonster · 2015-03-06T07:27:06+00:00

We all have selective perception. We see what we want to see. If we want to believe in this popular, but BP "Justice Narrative" where bad people get punished and good people get rewarded, we find examples and distort reality so that we see all the cases that justify our belief system.

It is a great human weakness and one key aspect of RP is becoming aware of this tendency, and eventually eradicating it as much as possible.

Good girls win and good girls lose, and bad girls win and bad girls lose. There is no order, there is no tidy reward and balance system in place to ensure that justice is carried out.

Now, I do know a TON of women who grew up with everything - hot, rich, etc, who are honestly miserable. But in these cases, these girls simply made decisions that didn't pay off - they are not bad people or people suffering the wrath of a just universe. They are just people who chose a strategy (short term, party now and settle later, marry for status, avoid hard work) and it didn't pay off.

There's other cases where the exact same strategy does pay off. Bitter guys love to forget about the fact that girls can win the game. Girls who won the genetic lottery and learned enough pragmatism to use people... they can go far, way way farther than many hard working guys can.

Inventing "justice" narratives is tempting because it makes the pill go down easier. You must remember, however, that TRP works so well because swallowing the pill is damn hard. Be wary of convenient bullshit that makes you feel better about everything - that feeling will stop you from learning how to accurately analyze reality.

HardBounce · Thu Mar 5 21:22:09 2015 UTC

Confirmed my mom my sister and her daughter were raised like this..

I was raised to be a beta like my father

Invalidity · 2015-03-05T22:46:07+00:00

Excellent post.

The men who fail to live up to their fullest potential tend to hold grudges on others and believe that "karma" will eventually wreck havoc on the lives of those people. It doesn't happen.

TAOofSTEVE · 2015-03-06T02:27:36+00:00

When I first discovered the red pill, the fire that fueled my transformation was the thought of seeing the look in the eyes of the girls who rejected me or passed me over. It drove me to a new career where I doubled my salary. Learning to manage my own investments and grow my savings. I hit the gym, focused on my health, and worked on my style. I canceled my cable, read books, picked up new hobbies.

I worked on my communication skills and studied social dynamics. I made new friends and strengthened my relationships with my existing friends. My relationship and bond with my family strengthened.

Along the way I forgot about the desire to stick it to the girls that rejected me and passed me over. I was too busy living an awesome life to think about them. They weren't my drive anymore. I am now my own drive.

Looking back, I don't blame those girls. I understand why they weren't interested in me. I cringe thinking about some of the things I did in my blue pill days. But what I did and the girls that once rejected led me to where I am today.

the99percent1 · 2015-03-06T03:11:08+00:00

Look, RP is all about freeing yourself from the shackles of society.

The purpose males have been bred is to be worker bees. Men are the ants of human civilization.

You work, bred and then you die. What a fucking life to live...

So start living it on your terms. Do things to please yourself first and foremost. Fuck what other people think is right for you, they are wrong.. Go black knight a couple of girls, today, everyday. Find amusement for yourself. Self improvement is for yourself. The end goal should never be about pleasing women over yourself.

HAMMURABl · 2015-03-05T21:34:42+00:00

actually, they will.

on the other hand, it is hard to get any sense of happiness out of seeing the previous 20y/o hottie turning a 40 y/o hag. if you meet her at 20, you might have some abstract comprehension of her hitting the wall, but jesus.

i cant help but feel pity for any woman turning 35. they have basically lived their life.

occupythekitchen · 2015-03-06T01:18:48+00:00

The word is redemption, I've had girls who looked me over get closer to me once I started to improve myself. Truth is I just wasn't attracted to them or their personality at that point and was doing my own thing. Once you're in a state of needing to improve its easier to regret the actions of others instead of getting your shit together. I doubt most guys who have their shit together resent anyone, they just go to the next.

I picked up this extremely attractive girl and we fooled around next day I tried to talk to her because I wanted more and she ignored me. I don't wish her any harm or have ill feelings towards her but the old me would have.

weirdnamedindian · 2015-03-05T23:33:22+00:00

Thank you so much for this!

This is absolutely true.

I got a mate of mine - we've now become gym buddies - who is 10 years younger than me. Got him into RedPill and both of us are still working on our SMV.

We were talking about our gains and he said exactly those words - "Man, those girls who passed us when in high school and uni are soo going to feel like chumps now that we've become so much more better"

Both me and my other mate - who is alpha as - shut him down as nicely as possible and told him to not think of it in this way.

Those women will lead awesome lives - or they will not.

Basically, forget about it. They couldn't care about you back then and they will not care about you in the future, however awesome you have become.

They are not worth the time and effort to think about.

Move on. They have. And you should too.

[deleted] · 2015-03-05T22:31:30+00:00

Rich people always have pick of the litter. They also always marry and have children. Well, not always I suppose, but the only traditional families left in the USA are rich families.

MattyAnon · 2015-03-05T23:11:48+00:00

Get revenge on those that slighted you and honour those who supported you in exactly the same way: be the best that you can be.

Some will do well into their 40's. Some will save money and favours and cash out. Some will get into drugs and slide downhill fast. Some will develop mental problems and slide downhill even faster. Some will be unlucky with their looks or be unable/unwilling to keep the fat off their bones. It's all a bit random.

Men have a longer shelf life - enjoy all of it but don't waste your time worrying about others. Most women lead fairly average lives - this is their lot. It is not ours. An average life is a shitty life for a man.

User-31f64a4e · 2015-03-05T23:37:42+00:00

Later in life, they may get their just deserts. They also might not, as the OP points out.

Who cares? Your life is what matters, not hers. Focus your energy where it can be useful. You have a lot of control over you own life; spend your effort and energy and thoughts there. Don't make your less happy by nursing grudges and loosing sleep over what will or won't happen to the bitches from the past. They say living well is the best revenge - so get even!

Also, the fate of our ex's is something we have very little power to affect. Probably the most you can do is plant little seeds of doubt in other men, to help sow the seeds of redpill. Not outright evangelism, because the backlash can damage you. So just planting seeds of doubt to help other men wake up and see women for what they actually are is all you can do to get back at women who did you wrong.

The goal of the red pill should be to not let any of this affect you, to live a great life and not care about the fact that some groups of people just automatically have it better than you do.

Well said. Focus your energy and thoughts where it will do some good - your life.

[deleted] · 2015-03-06T00:25:29+00:00

A woman's looks are a depreciating asset. A mans intelligence is an appreciating asset. A porn star Shy Love coined that.

bitches_be_crazy86 · 2015-03-06T20:53:41+00:00

Hey don't blame women for being sluts. No one hates sluts. Personally I love them. The problem starts when you're a mere 7/10 trying to score 7/10 or higher and they just ignore you or reluctantly use as a BB.

You put yourself in a situation like that. All those retards that get married know what they are doing or should know what they are doing. If you're 7/10 and aren't a worthless pussy wipped western hemisphere faggot you can get 5 or 6 out of 10 bitches all over you and praying for being your FWB. I see sluts like that from time to time. Random girl you see somewhere and from the way she looks at you.., you know it's just a matter of handing her your number and she will call, meet and be your cumbucket.

I am not saying that you shouldn't be ambitious or improve. Quite the opposite, but don't be an annoying door to door salesman trying to sell a product that no one wants. Be more agressive by being passive. Build your value and stop chasing bitches. Them bitches should be chasing you.

kevkos · 2015-03-05T21:41:06+00:00

Most will actually suffer, because most hot 21 year old women are under the illusion that their power as a hot chick will last forever, then come the 30's, and as things change, most will freak the fuck out.

So instead of wishing that they'd suffer, know that they will and have empathy for their older, less attractive selves.

User-31f64a4e · 2015-03-05T23:59:41+00:00

This is a great post. It goes well beyond red pill.

Pretending life is fair and women will get what's coming to them is a delusion, a mental crutch. As I look into myself, I see this being about refusing to admit that someone got the better of me. I was had, and I didn't deserve it, and there is somehow comfort in the idea that she'll get hers. Why? Because it is very difficult to admit to myself I lost a time or two. That maybe I don't have the power to make women treat me well, that I didn't in the past and I don't know. That I was a victim. Pretending life is fair lets me deny these truths, because she magically gets hers in the end.

A better answer than delusion is to realize that you are not completely powerless over women, once you see clearly. To some extent this is what PUA is about, although that still carries a lot of risks (pregnancy, false accusations, crazy bitches, etc.) in this climate. PUA is also very situational; it is applied psychology, applied to a limited range of endeavour. But you have other power. You have the power to walk, to be MGTOW if you want to. You have the power to be very choosy in your relationships, making pussy beg you instead of the other way around. You have the power to set terms and limits on your relationships and stick to them, once you accept abundance and master the fear and accept that yes, she might walk over your terms. You have the power to focus on your self instead of on women, optimizing your life and fitting women in where and how it is convenient.

So don't delude yourself, don't pretend life is fair, don't rely on karma instead of exercising what power you do have. Face life head on, and play out your hand as best you can. In a lot of ways that is what it means to be a man - not to whine, but to act as powerfully as you can.

Throw-awy · Thu Mar 5 23:01:40 2015 UTC

This is so weird that this topic came up. I was just thinking about a post wall woman I dated a while back that may pertain to this topic. It's like the time I was thinking about a plate of shrimp and somebody says "plate" and someone else says "shrimp." (Extra respect for the guy that names the movie that came from)

Anyway, I was dating a post wall woman a while back before my RP discovery, and a few dates in, we go to her place after a night of drinking. We are on her couch and she pulls out her photo album. She shows me pictures of herself in her 20's when she was hot and around a lot of guys partying. I guess it was to show me her former glory days and former SMV. She was a very pretty girl back then.

Instead of basking in Schadenfreude, reveling in her misery of making the wrong choices in life like the beta revenge porn we sometimes see here; I felt fucking horrible! I was so sad and I felt so sorry for her, that I wanted to cry. It was really heartbreaking. I guess I'm not really a true Red Pill guy since I still feel bad for her.

cocaine_face · 2015-03-05T23:34:57+00:00

Eh, I'm almost 30 and I've seen plenty of girls start to hit the wall.

While I agree some will escape it, there definitely does seem to be something of a judgment day. I already have one ex posting about how she'll, "Find a real man that'll forgive her for her mistakes" or something like that.

Mazz0 · 2015-03-08T17:22:38+00:00

I have this problem. Throughout high-school I was ignored, then the first girlfriend I had left me for another guy. Ever since it feels as though I'm trying to improve myself to spite them, and it bothers me. Because the things I'm doing to improve myself (except for learning Portuguese) ARE for the purpose of attracting women. Attracting new girls, and making old ones jealous seems to be my only motivation - and I don't think its the healthiest motivation.

draketton · 2015-03-06T02:22:50+00:00

What I've learned through following the lives of my hottest high school classmates is that the happiest women are the ones who were attractive as a teenager, carefully maintained that attractiveness for 10-15 years, partied for about 75% of those years then married in their late 20s.

A lot of TRP users advocate a lifestyle where a woman skips the wild partying and marries during teenage years or shortly after. I've seen that one play out a few times and it's always a misery trap.

yummyluckycharms · 2015-03-06T04:06:50+00:00

There is a difference between anger and revenge.

Anger is undirected and is generally pointless besides venting. Revenge is usually focused on individuals, organizations, etc that wronged a person and can be used to give an individual the motivation and ambition to see that revenge fullfilled. Its highly productive as history as shown us

In red pill context, anger at hot girls or complaining about the system of hypergamy is useless. Seeking revenge by seeking to improve one self so that you can rub it in their face is highly satisfying. Having done it myself quite a few times, the pleasure is almost ecstatic. I would never recommend discarding the drive for revenge

johnnight · 2015-03-06T16:27:17+00:00

I have examples on my facebook, where The Wall hit them like a concrete block. It's mostly genetics, but there is also lack of maintenance.

It's just sad and in those particular cases I had nothing against them. And there is one suicide case, which I also blame mostly on the wall. She is was an OK person.

OTOH, life is random and its punishments are not based on merit.

edwardhwhite · 2015-03-05T23:22:28+00:00

Huh? I could care less about what they think. I care about what I am going to do.

Squeezymypenisy · 2015-03-06T03:56:45+00:00

Finally. I was so sick of these revenge and anger posts that keep showing up. The anger phase should only last a short time, then you move on.

Meeseeks_AndFreaks · 2015-03-06T04:44:32+00:00

Not sure why so many people are agreeing with you. I'm nearing 30 and have seen enough cases to prove otherwise.

TempusRerumImperator · 2015-03-06T15:15:18+00:00

I don't think you understand what the WALL is. Sure these girls will be able to get their beta bucks, but that wont make them happy. The WALL is when you realize you're not pretty or smart or feminine enough to secure commitment from a Rich Alpha and have to resign yourself to betadom. The WALL is losing your youth and innocence and becoming a jaded cunt. In that respect, many women have already hit the wall by 20.

BBB2000 · 2015-03-05T22:29:39+00:00

I have to agree with this. I think the wall is greatly exaggerated.

Chicks are still hot in their 30s and have their pick of the litter.

If a chick ages well...yeah she may not get the top 3 percent of men....but is it that bad if you can get the top 10 percent still ??

It's a minor adjustment I think.

While guys smv increases with age and we get more options, we still have NOWHERE near the options chicks have even when they are older. It's just facts.

malignantbacon · 2015-03-06T06:01:58+00:00

The problem a lot of the guys with that mentality have is that they don't realize that the suffering of people they used to care so much about isn't going to do a thing to make their own lives better. You can try to make fun of it and relatively speaking it might make them feel better, but feelings predicated on someone else not doing well are hollow objectives to pursue in life.

[deleted] · 2015-03-06T11:00:24+00:00

Preach!

I have met old females I had a crush on and for a split second wanted to show off physically to show them what they passed up, but I realized this action was petty and didn't matter to either of us in the end. They went their way and I went mine.

midnightyeti · 2015-03-06T12:56:52+00:00

Many young women want to live the alpha cock dream. They want it, badly, but they're too far buried in their comfort nest to go out and find it. However, these days a lot of young single women do sneak out of their cozy bubble and use sugar dating websites like www.tempted.com and hook up with successful, wealthy, generous men.

antwonedw · 2015-03-06T14:50:11+00:00

great post.

youcomehereoften · 2015-03-06T15:05:00+00:00

Well said.

AnonTheAnonymous · 2015-03-06T16:53:36+00:00

I still think it can be fun to watch them get butthurt when they see an attractive man their age with a much younger woman.

thedatingmind · 2015-03-06T17:31:11+00:00

Fantastic post. Playing the victim looking for revenge is a losing battle. People, pretty girls included, see their childhood with rose colored glasses, and forget all the times they ignored someone. Kids are assholes. Be an adult

nofaprecommender · 2015-03-06T18:53:06+00:00

Great post. I would add something about the following that you said:

The goal of the red pill should be to not let any of this affect you, to live a great life and not care about the fact that some groups of people just automatically have it better than you do.

It's only better by the standards of outward superficial socially-approved success. "Count no man happy until he is dead," as they say. Just because someone has more social validation or access than you doesn't mean their lives are really better in the way that you might want it to be. Look at Kim K, she is going to be rich and desired all her life but I'm sure her head is empty and endlessly craving for some purpose in life. Siddhartha was born a prince and gave it all to become the Buddha and that was the better life for him. Believe that your life is the best one for you and those other people will matter even less.

dicklord_airplane · 2015-03-06T19:41:40+00:00

a phrase that helps me let go of resentment, can't remember where i heard it: "Harboring resentment is like taking poison yourself and hoping that it hurts the person you resent."

also, remember that a lot of people probably resent you for whatever advantages you have (whether you were born with them or earned them), and what does that mean to you? nothing! step outside of yourself and take a good look so that you don't end up like one of those people with festering resentment and petty, dishonorable schadenfreude. that's no way to live, in my opinion.

planetross2 · 2015-03-06T19:54:35+00:00

well, this thread really took off on the votes. I expected it to be downvoted into oblivion but looks like many on here realize this sad truth.

Masonjarteadrinker2 · 2015-03-06T20:23:17+00:00

Great post, I find myself thinking, oh she's gonna regret it but that's stupid thinking, she shouldn't be in my head at all.

Thanks OP I needed to read that.

Saiserit · 2015-03-06T23:35:57+00:00

"Over the past two decades, the use of antidepressants has skyrocketed. One in 10 Americans now takes an antidepressant medication; among women in their 40s and 50s, the figure is one in four."

BluepillProfessor · 2015-03-07T16:32:35+00:00

I wonder how much getting used up and old for a woman is based on the number of kids she pushed out even more so than keeping in shape and eating right.

foldpak111 · 2015-03-06T01:49:47+00:00

They're going to be miserable once they hit the wall. They might have a lot of materialistic possessions they stole from BB, but she'll be longing to get an alpha to commit but they won't. Knowing she'll be thrown around like a piece of meat is hilarious.

Venicedreaming · 2015-03-06T06:28:24+00:00

Yes, i agree. It's admirable to push for self-improvement. However, it is very pitiful when someone puts down others or worrying about whether other people are happier, men or women. Live your life the best as you can, stop giving two fucks about how other people are doing

prodigyx · 2015-03-06T00:03:44+00:00

Nothing wrong with using it as motivation for self-improvement.

"She is going to be so sorry she dumped me once I'm a millionaire body builder."

Eventually you forget about her completely because you are so focused on continuing progressing your goals.

Anger, fear, hate, wishing ill-will upon somebody...all these things are only harmful to yourself.

GurneyHalleck85 · 2015-03-06T02:28:19+00:00

Haha, such hardcore red pill. This is why I love this place: the endless shattering of delusions.

AFPJ · 2015-03-05T22:22:06+00:00

Not only is wishing ill on others bad for you, but in this situation, it likely won't happen.

On the contrary, reaping what one sows is truer than ever in this case. Their happiness is defined by the strength and stability of their bond with the man in their lives. The mechanism which binds a woman to a man evolved (this is just my personal belief, supported by things I've seen first hand & previous partner count to divorce rate stats) as a one-shot kind of chemical firework. It works the second time, maybe - any cocks past that ensure a woman will almost certainly be unhappy regardless of how her subsequent life and relationships may seem on the surface.

This isn't written as some ill wishing redemption male rights bravado bullshit, it's just how it is. The above is a big reason why I'd rather not fuck a virgin unless I am at least somewhat interested in dating her nowadays ...it's just a waste and thinking back to how many lives I permanently fucked up with just that doesn't make me feel good.

If only the sad fucks who'd make great dads figured out how to seem slightly less so and got enough know-how to isolate and fuck the virgins they want to have tons of cute babies with, our society would be so much better off.

token_stache · 2015-03-06T00:27:30+00:00

Fuck twenty somethings as long as you can. That's the best revenge, fucking the younger version of the girl who is now post wall who thought she was better than you. Will it hurt her, no, but you'll know your fucking the girl who is now better than her.

Philhelm · 2015-03-05T20:53:19+00:00

Perhaps, but I do sometimes take comfort in the fact that my enemies (male or female) will die, and will likely experience psychological torment and grief before that glorious day arrives.

TheRedThrowAwayPill · 2015-03-06T06:48:37+00:00

TL;DR: AF/BB

Wtf dude you just described a central tenant of TRP.

"Not happening";

umm I don't think any one here thinks that happens AF/Cat-lady doesn't happen. It happens all the time. And as for no one thinking that these girls will get a doctor/lawyer BB later on is probably an incorrect assumption.

Rather this sub calls a spade a spade and preaches to at least not be the BB. Even mgtow would be better than BB as per this sub.

StarDestinyGuy · 2015-03-06T05:25:15+00:00

Your description of hot girls and their lives is a large amount of why I've seriously considered a sex change. Living the easy life.

blandboringusername · Fri Mar 6 7:51:30 2015 UTC

Every human being who ever lived, even the most powerful and feared alphas that you admire, started out as helpless little bundles of flesh, shitting all over themselves and crying for their mommies. In the end, unless you can arrange for a convenient fiery motorcycle crash to take you out while you're still young and handsome, we are all frail weaklings that any middle school kid could push over and rob.

It's in between those two periods of life that matters. That's when a man builds himself. Some guys (not you or me because we're not smart enough) will make their mark in math and science and change the world. Others will lift, perfect their alpha game, and leave their mark on the 115 lb vaginas of the world.

The Nobel laureate, the swole alpha drowning in pussy, and the high school cheerleader all have one thing in common. They weren't always as they are now, and they won't always be that way. Let go of your powerless past when you got shit on and spurned. Always plan for your future, but live in the now.

BTW, I personally have lived long enough to see some very pretty young white girls I knew socially years ago, age into overweight brunhildas. More the rule than the exception actually. 90%+ of female beauty = young + thin.

RELTIH88 · 2015-03-05T22:17:59+00:00

You are wrong on this. It does feel good to know that some hot narcissistic slut will one day become invisible to men, just how she treated 99 percent of men in her prime. This is justice and justice feels good.

[deleted] · 2015-03-05T23:33:59+00:00

Thanks it was getting kinda sad, almost like others judge this sub.

FallenHighSchoolJock · 2015-03-06T07:48:18+00:00

Oh god not you again. How many alt accounts and posts are you going to make about missing out on your college days? Most of us aren't dwelling on this and neither should you. Here's what you need to do. Move to a big city. Get a cool job. Get a cool hobby and develop an awesome social circle where you can date hot 21 year olds forever.

Title	Continue improving yourself but let go of the idea that the hot girls who passed you up are going to suffer.
Author	planetross2
Upvotes	733
Comments	201
Date	05 March 2015 07:31 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	TheRedPill
Link	https://theredarchive.com/post/29882
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2y1xxh/continue_improving_yourself_but_let_go_of_the/

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