Say you go out with a girl for the first time and she doesn’t put out that night. But you’re willing to give her one more shot.

How long do you wait before reaching out again? I’m thinking too soon might signal desperate, but too long might signal butthurt.

So what’re your thoughts on these potential timing options and why:

1) a couple days later 2) the very next week 3) after the next week goes by

Thanks for the responses. Hoping we can collect some data on this. I tend to switch it up as I don’t have a strong conviction on best approach here.