I’m a 19 year old male and I was watching a lot of red pill videos. I got into a relationship and everything was great, she was happy and so was I. Then watching red pill videos made me think that she would cheat on me with someone else and that she’s a whore and stuff even though she’s a very insecure but great girl. I would even get insecure to the point where she gave me her IG just to stop making myself think she’s not doing anything. I feel like these videos won’t make me have the same relationship I had before because now it makes me think that every women is a whore or just use you for something. I’ve been cutting back on red pill content because I realized that all the men just sound bitter and I’ve talked to great females in recent years. Hopefully with a break I can overcome this level of thinking these videos made me have.
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Go fuck yourself.
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Who cares what he calls females/women/whatever? Guys don't bat an eye when we're called "males."
Equality is about not babying females.
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Admitting there's a problem is the first healthy step. Also, making sure you welcome diverse perceptions will keep you grounded and well-rounded. Try this site on for size, this guy is fairly opposite, which might help: https://thebettermanprojects.com/
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This sounds like the best approach. Get any form of negativity out of your life. You are what you consume. There are risks to any relationship, but there are some awesome rewards. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders, just remember to use it. Most of the items the redpillers complain about could be avoided by being patient and deliberate in your actions. Learn to love yourself before you worry about loving someone else or them loving you. Then you can be the kind of man that attracts quality women.
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I think what happened here is that you are getting really needy and insecure because you're afraid of getting cheated on.
Once you have true confidence in yourself and you've mentally adapted to reality, you don't need to worry, because you won't really care since you have other options that you know you can get. That confidence is sexy and makes it far less likely to get cheated on.
Consider this though: humans were never designed to be monogamous for 100 years at a time. We aren't wired that way, nor did we ever live that long in the past. So think to yourself, what is an "amazing" couple to you? 10 years? 20 years?(humans used to die from 20-40 years old) 50 years? Because eventually you will want to fuck another pussy and she will want to fuck another dick, it's just our reward systems in our brain. So are you prepared for that? Do you know how to make a relationship last? Do you know how to stay happy in a relationship and live the way YOU want? Well that's what TRP teaches. NOT that women are "bad".
The red pill is meant to get you out of fantasy land and as close to the gritty reality as possible and take actions to get the best results in REALITY. It is NOT meant to make you paranoid. Being attentive to details is a social skills developed over time of getting to know women and stories of others.
Perhaps young red pillers are not prepared for the red pill because they are still mentally underdeveloped and fall into the pitfalls of neediness/paranoia very quickly, and maybe it is beneficial to live a false fantasy to help people come to terms with reality faster when it fails..
It's clear that you still haven't let go of your insecurities that are holding you back from your best self.
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looks maybe?
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