There are many of you reading through this sub who are looking for a way to change.

You’re sick of having to pretend to be something you’re not. You’re tired of always having to be “on”, forever worrying that you’ll say the wrong thing and lose frame. You’re forever trying to be the “alpha”, yet you often feel deeply insecure about how “alpha” you’re actually being.

You want meaningful connections with women, even if that is only for one night.

And that is possible. Despite what The Red Pill would have you believe, you don’t need to lie or manipulate women into liking you. There is a way to be yourself and find women who like you for you.

And that requires a shift. A shift in your perspective.

I’m a dating coach, and I love to help men get comfortable with who they are and find women who love them for who they are.

I’m not going to give you tired picked up lines. I’m not going to tell you stand at a particular angle and express disinterest.

I’m going to show you the mindset that will guide you in how to behave like you want to behave.

I’m not going to teach you how to behave. I’m going to help you find the way you want to behave.

Who am I?

Like many of you, I used to have no idea how to interact with women. I tried to be kind and to be a good friend, but I could never understand why women didn’t see me as a sexual prospect.

But then it hit me. They didn’t see me as one because I never presented myself as being one. I was never honest about what I wanted with them. I expected them to understand that I was interested, rather than outright telling them I was.

I was the perpetual friend and it made me sad.

But slowly I learned how to communicate what I wanted. I learned how to flirt, how to express desire and be comfortable with the inevitable rejections. I began to cut through through and form a new identity, one where I cared less what people thought, enjoyed what I enjoyed and pursued who I wanted to pursue.

Was it hard? Sometimes, yeah . Was it worth it?

Fuck yeah

What I will coach you on

  • Unlearning The Red Pill
  • How to be comfortable expressing who you are and what you want
  • How to never play games and find women who don’t play them either
  • How to build the best possible online dating profile
  • How to have interesting conversations
  • How to become comfortable with your own anxiety and fears around meeting women
  • How to be comfortable expressing yourself
  • How to pick clothes and colours that work for you
  • Show you that it isn’t about frame or dominance, it’s about figuring out whether two adults lives intersect with each other or not