All women are submissive

sarah-goldfarb · 2019-11-05T22:13:02+00:00

When making such a broad generalization as "all women like to serve men in sex," you don't really need to find empirical data, you can just talk to actual women, most of whom would be insulted by a statement like that. Sure, most women like to please their partners. They also like to be pleased. Go to any internet forum about sex and you'll find women complaining about men who don't eat pussy, men who don't do enough foreplay, men who don't try to make them come. You'll find women complaining about how porn is made for men and doesn't reflect women's tastes. You can read romance novels or erotica catered to women. You can go on fetlife and find women who exclusively like to be dominant. You can find women who lesbians and totally uninterested in men.

Speaking from personal experience, I do tend to like to be on the bottom when I'm getting fucked by a guy, but it's not because of the power dynamic, it's because I'm lazy and sex is a lot easier when you're laying down. It's way easier to have an orgasm when you can lay back and enjoy it without having to do any work. I have also met a lot of guys who prefer to be on bottom, for the same reason.

Everyone is different when it comes to sex. What good does it do you to generalize? My guess is that it makes you feel superior, because if women want to be dominated by men, you think that must make men better than women. This philosophy will make you bad in bed, and bad in life.

ihaveasmallpeniss · 2019-11-05T22:46:14+00:00

This is just on the face of it ridiculous. Most girls who enjoy rough sex also enjoy vanilla sex. There are plenty of girls who enjoy being dominant, I knew one like that. And as far as rough sex goes, no mentally healthy girl would agree to it unless she is completely comfortable with the guy.

oree94 · 2019-11-05T23:53:20+00:00

I don't think I have to quote any studies when I say there are women who don't enjoy any sex with men. Or wants to have anything to do with men romantically or sexually. So that debunks the "all women" argument.

cutezie · 2019-11-06T01:02:57+00:00

Woman here, I like different kinds of sex depending on how I feel.

Unless my partner doesn’t make me feel like a human and expects particular, generalized behaviors from me, then no sex. None.

pandamojia · 2019-11-06T00:14:36+00:00

Ok then explain why some men pay crazy money for domanatrix women or fap to their partner sleeping with someone else?

They say this because they are weak minded and try to make themselves appear “alpha”.

beigs · 2019-11-06T03:13:13+00:00

Everyone has their own thing, and sometimes what works one day doesn’t work another.

Women are complex beings, just like men. They have moods, likes, dislikes, phases, etc. I know this because I am a woman, and can say truly that how I want sex is dependent on how I and my husband feel. We are respectful, and cater to each other. He meets me, and I meet him where we are most comfortable.

I believe just asking women, just normal women and friends for an honest answer might be extremely awkward if you don’t have any close girlfriends, but if you do, it’s a good place to start. Here is also a safe place.

LadyE123 · 2019-11-06T03:35:48+00:00

Yea, me and my sexuality says that. I don't like to be dominated at all by a man and prefer a mutually respectful relationship/sexual relationship. With the growing popularity of sexualized violence against women in filmed prostitution, I worry about the little girls and boys coming into their sexuality using that poison (it's already ravished the adults).

brahmidia · 2019-11-06T07:35:29+00:00

"All" is a great sign that someone is exaggerating and probably wrong.

All skies are not blue. All black people don't have brown eyes. All motorcycles don't have two or even three or even four wheels. Etc etc etc.

When someone tries to get you to think about all-or-nothing black-and-white concepts instead of seeing the individual in front of you and acknowledging infinite shades of gray, I highly recommend you check their motives and maturity because they're rarely up to snuff. It's like a used car salesman trying to convince you that you need to buy today.

If you want to know what people like, I suggest you start by asking them. Most people are surprisingly honest especially when it comes to sharing their opinions on things. What women want is not a secret, it's just that misogynists don't like the answers they hear. Hell, women write plenty of books and blogs and fanfics, you can even read things from their perspective without leaving the house. You'd just have to want to actually listen to a woman for two seconds, and that's where redpillers get hung up.

Qzry · 2019-11-06T07:35:17+00:00

I dont

absolutebeginners · 2019-11-06T13:24:53+00:00

You made the claim you post proof. Until then i am deleting

gajew1 · 2019-11-08T17:22:21+00:00

I know everything. I asked about research because people with such views accept only scientific research.

I_like_the_word_MUFF · 2019-11-06T12:42:16+00:00

If you are so interested, why not go to university and study it.

You could study anthropology, which is a broad study of humans. (That's what I did).

You could study sociology, humans in groups.

You could study psychology, humans as individuals.

You could even just go in and get that Gender Studies degree and really get specific on the female experience.

There is no point in just posting research. Why? Because a research study or even a dozen, still only represents a drop in a bucket of actual knowledge regarding human behavior. A spit in the ocean. To KNOW this topic is to study it.

There is no universal underlying female condition. Not dominant. Not submissive. It's not found in men either. That's the capital T truth.

catbrainland · 2019-11-06T07:02:22+00:00

"All" is a silly exclusion of outliers, it's more along the lines of "vast majority". It's also not about degrading sex per se, but more about control. Women who prefer passive men are outliers, but of course they're out there. Correlates to kinsey scale in general, save for the small amount of people who have extremely specific preferences.

Title	All women are submissive
Author	gajew1
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Date	November 5, 2019 10:00 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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