What are some really bad or worst advice the red pill gives?

Five_Decades · 2019-10-01T23:25:54+00:00

Pursue women for validation rather than meaningful companionship.

audit123 · 2019-10-01T23:43:44+00:00

Lying to your SO and tricking them into being a plate.

Jamonde · 2019-10-02T02:09:04+00:00

The idea that people who are different from you (women) are somehow lesser than you.

I_like_the_word_MUFF · 2019-10-02T11:46:00+00:00

It assumes that people are perfect in their actions and language.

Nothing is perfect. Not a one of us. Not women. Not men. Nobody is perfect.

In fact we are so imperfect that our eyes see perfect things as flawed. Too perfect. The architect of the Acropolis in Athens built the columns to appear perfect from a person standing below looking up. But the columns themselves are not straight at all. Why? Our eyes see imperfectly. Perception effects us.

We think imperfectly. Why do we have entire academic disciplines that study cognitive biases? Because we are wired imperfectly, for efficiency not accuracy.

Yet here we are, daily, reading stories about people who can't understand that shit goes south unexpectedly when you put two or more imperfect people in a room and expect perfection.

Yet people want to believe in ideology that is succinct, easy, formulaic. In a world that presents itself, from the start, as unpredictable. That's the bad advice: telling people that a formula works. It doesn't. Life is unpredictable, and so are people. So are you. That's the fun of it.

roguish_rogue · 2019-10-02T11:11:23+00:00

Good: hit the gym, dont be an open book, its okay to date non-exclusively, dont get married if you are wealthy, be your own mental point of origin, embrace masculinity, have less shame, abundance mentality, getting rid of some unattractive behaviors, ignore feminists.

Bad: dont show vulnerability, become dark triad, negative mindset about women in general, alot of bad game and seemingly a total ignorance about how charisma works, forgetting to have fun, overtinking and overgeneralizing, change your core personality, becoming infected by politics and trad bs and useless black pill nonsense.

coffeetablestain · 2019-10-02T03:21:19+00:00

Negative experiences in relationships are a sign there’s a problem and you need to get out. When your partner has a problem it’s a “shit test” and must be shot down or dump them.

Healthy couple fight, have emotions, disagree and come together with a better understanding of each other after and learn to compromise. Learning to embrace and understand this process is called “growing up and learning how to be a good person.”

Thinking you can go through life never having to deal with human emotions or having to learn to adjust to other people is the life of a fucking toddler.

Jamonde · 2019-10-02T21:12:53+00:00

Because in life, one of the things you do is talk to people? And women are people? Like you may have a woman who is a supervisor? I assume you’d be interested in dating one at some point? Talking to women outside of romantic contexts is a pretty important thing, broski. And no, that’s simply false: it may be easier to make male friends as a dude, but having female friends as a dude is great, too. Literally go and ask different men in your life if they have any friends who are women and if they value them. Fuck, ask your parents. Ask literally anybody. The idea that men and women can’t be friends is ludicrous redpill shit that you’d do well to get out of your head sooner rather than later, friend.

Besides, different doesn’t mean one is worse than the other. You can’t ‘game’ people into a system where you categorize them based on something that doesn’t have as much meaning as you’re assigning it. You’d do well to get out of whatever bubble your life is and meet people who will challenge your assumptions.

Pastelitomaracucho · 2019-10-02T05:50:40+00:00

The overgeneralizations are absolutely fallacious.

Of course you can find trends in everything but they are just that: trends.

difficultconcept · 2019-10-02T07:51:02+00:00

No one talks about dangers of promiscuity. TRP is probably the 2nd worst place you can get sex ed from (1st is porn). By having infinite sexual partners you are bound to catch some disease sooner or later and pass it onto your future partners without even knowing it.

Most (but not all) STDa are treatable but every time you get reinfected it gets harder to cure it. Antibiotic resistance is a real danger.

TeePeeDucks · 2019-10-02T08:57:20+00:00

Completely ruins any form of trust between men and women. It teaches men to dehumanize women; and as a result, women are now weary of men.

lostinthesauce129129 · 2019-10-16T19:41:02+00:00

That only “Chad’s” get laid a lot. It’s true that that guys “above average” guys get the majority of casual sex. However, chad (and all of his attributes) is just some made up concept.
“Game.” Anyone who talks about “game” does not get laid.... Talking to women isn’t some weird dark art you need to study. It’s not “natural” either... simply something you get better at through lots of experience.

All kinds of stuff.

Yesm3can · 2019-10-02T06:52:49+00:00

Dread.

If you find yourself in an LTR and need to dread your partner to get what you want even after openly trying to talk your problem out with her, instead of you know, leaving?????, Like what normal person all over the world will do.

Then you are the omegaest of omegas out there. And these people call it 'alpha' move. Dread is just shit-test for men with a lot of hamster wheel spinning involved.

Just.Fucking.Leave. How can leaving not be a fucking option at all?

Title	What are some really bad or worst advice the red pill gives?
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Date	October 1, 2019 11:04 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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