I posted this in r/dating, but I'm posting it here so that I have the freedom to poke a little more in the direction of The Red Pill.

Alright so I've been talking to a girl from my job recently for like three or four days. We first hit it off a couple weeks ago, but I never really started speaking to her that much until recently, and we've been chatting on Snapchat. I want to hang out with her outside of work and she says she's gonna be busy for like 11 days and she'll be on vacation for 6, which is a whopping 17 days where we can't hang out at all. We've already passed like 3 of those days I think, I don't know. Point is, I smell bullshit. My knowledge of the Red Pill has me thinking that if she REALLY wanted to hang out, she would make time. However, she's been sincere with me so far, and every time I doubt her or come up with an assumption, she surprises me and proves me wrong, so she might be telling the truth. This isn't mentioning the fact that everyone at my job keeps telling me that she's clearly into me (although from what I know, they've never asked her personally). These are guys that are telling me this by the way, and maybe only like one girl. They just keep commenting on the way she looks at me and stuff, and that's an awesome boost to my self-confidence, but that isn't definitive evidence. And being as jaded as I am, I need definitive evidence to move forward.

But that's just background information. Here's the real problem.

It goes back to the 17 days thing; I feel like I'm taking things too slow. There are two guys that are also from my job (one is my manager, which spells doom if you know about the Red Pill) who are clearly after her too in some way, whether it be sexual or for a relationship. I don't know if I can wait 17 days to end up getting flaked on or otherwise bullshitted, and the knowledge I have garnered over time tells me that I should probably do more in the way of being sexual with her, rather than just letting the cards fall where they may. I know that the other two guys at my job have no problem doing that, and would probably end up having sex with her if it came down to it (and pretty easily too), but I don't think that I can do the same. It's just not really my style, even though "my style" breaks the rules on damn near everything I know from the seduction and Red Pill communities. So what do I do? I'm very Mode One oriented, I try to run a semi-direct game. I'm not above voicing my attraction for her and telling her where I stand, but at the same time, I don't think that this is the right way to go about it, because doing so kills the "Does he really like me?" question. I'm worried of killing the mystery, but I'm also worried of her losing attraction for me. Not to mention the fact that two other dudes who are clearly have more abilities in the way of picking up chicks are after her. I'm probably jinxing it by asking, but I need to know: am I worrying over nothing or should I be....idk, more upfront?