Women sexuality.

Like, i understand that women arent less sexual, they also like to feel wanted, kiss, touch, have sex, joke about it etc, but sometimes i look at my gf in more innocent way/non-sexual. How can i find balance between understanding that sexuality is normal for both sexes and morals, normal human-like relationships?

What RedPill rules can be good for relationships in terms of remaining interesting, valuable etc without being hardcore evil manipulator?