I'm on tinder after a breakup to get a sense for the current dating pool, and I increased my age range out of curiosity. These older men, for the most part, are not cute. Even by the age of 27 some of them look beat down, especially those that did ambitious things in their career so far and didn't take care of themselves. Most of them are fat. I'm much more of a personality person, I'm just making this post to get your thoughts on it. I'm saying this in response to TRP's talking point about men getting better looking with age, even becoming, and I quote, "godlike" if you take care of yourself. Take care of yourself all you want, you will be powerless against male pattern baldness and the inevitability of time. In my mind the only real difference between the aesthetics of men vs women aging is that men are allowed to. Most people are not attractive to begin with, and time doesn't usually help. I think the wall is an obsession because redpillers want to imagine the pretty girls that rejected them eventually feeling like they do now, alone and unwanted. It just feels so mean-spirited. We're all going to get older, why would you want someone to feel bad about that?

I think TRP wildly overestimates how much of an advantage being an attractive young woman is. It maybe has opened some doors for me, but really nothing substantial. Most of the time people want things from me instead of wanting to give me things. People don't even buy me drinks, they just come interrupt conversations with my friends throughout the night. I hate rejecting people, but because I get more attention than most, I'm forced to. I now know that some of those men hope I grow old and ugly alone, and that's just fucking weird. We're all just trying to find love out here, friends.