I've seen a lot of things saying that women will lose attraction or get bored if she feels too secure in the relationship.
I found this comment on a /r/relationships post:
- "Remember this golden piece of advice "if you are willing to leave righeously , the girl will always stay righteously ". What this means is that if she can always sense that at any moment you are willing to say "ok , you're boring me , bye bye" and leave , she will always stay with you and love you. Once you give 100% unconditional security to a girl they will get bored."
The guy was also saying that because most commenters on that sub are female, they would say that isn't true, but they don't really know. Is the same true for this sub aswell?
It makes me worried that I need to keep up some thing with my GF where I can't ever make her feel 100% secure.
Also I've read about girls finding men who are insecure very unattractive.
This is bad for me as I have a lot of issues with anxiety and obsessive thoughts and my GF knows a bit about my issues but I'm scared about revealing too much because I can just see in my mind her losing attraction to me.
It's more attractive to be confident and therefore revealing too much is bad.
Someone was saying that any women would say that you should communicate everything but really they don't realise/won't admit that it's a turn off?
Again I guess people here will say that it isn't true, but is it just because it sounds bad to say but in actual fact it's true?
Can someone help me out I don't know what to believe.
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