This has happened now 3 times. I have used RP techniques like abundance mentality and a little "dread game" when I first initiate contact with girls. I just pretend to be a cocky arrogant fucker who doesn't give a shit about anything (usually drunk when I meet them) I gain some attention from them and as I start to get to know them I loosen up a bit.

I warm up and get feelings for them and as I start acting differently immediately they want nothing to do with me. What's up? Why are these RP techniques working but when I stop using them they leave? What am I supposed to be doing???