Hello, I'm fairly new to the theredpill, but not yet keen on becoming entirely redpilled. The ideology is something of interest to me since all of my relationships have failed terribly, and I was missing a father figure for the majority of my adolescence, however I don't accept any information without first seeing both sides of an argument. That led me here, and also to r/thebluepill, and more importantly, r/purplepilldebate where ideas from both sides could be challenged in a less biased environment. The question I have not yet been able to answer in my research is this: If women aren't capable of unconditional love, are biologically predisposed to always search for something better, or constantly manipulate and shit test you, what's the use of trying to have a relationship or hook up with women at all? From this question I found r/mgtow, and I could really sympathize with their way of thinking, but it just wasn't a life I wanted. I want to love unconditionally and to be loved unconditionally, I want to be completely open with a partner. TRP teaches that that way of thinking is part of society's blue pill conditioning. It has even proven evident with my relationship with women, when I try to open up or love, my partner pulls away. When I act like I don't care, girls act like they're in love. Is this the reality of relationships? Do I have to be uncaring to keep my partner around? Must I always "hold frame" and keep a wall around me, to keep a relationship going? It sounds exhausting and frankly, not worth the time. Exredpill, is there more to this that I'm not seeing? Is it because my age range is too young (22) to have the relationship I'm looking for? Will I only find a relationship like that after a woman is done with her wild years? Any feedback is appreciated.
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