Hey all,

I am struggling with getting these paradigms and thoughts out of my head. I realize that they are poison and they will destroy my relationship if I don't get a handle on them and push them from my mind. It is my own fault really. I buried myself in RP ideology and internalized a lot of it after my previous relationship. Now I'm having trouble switching my thinking and some of it still rings true in my mind when I feel it shouldn't. Any advice? Thanks!