I'm a female who has been struggling with some behavior types within the red pill community because, horrifyingly, there is a tiny grain of truth within the steaming pile of bullshit. Had a moment of realization that helped me, and I hope it helps guys who feel lost and confused and think they have no way to meet other people without strutting around all alpha-like.

TheRedPill abuses the laws of attraction to encourage men to make themselves attractive, develop delusions of grandeur, and treat women like shit/totally inferior. That's it. Laws of Attraction + Raging Misogyny. Tah dahhhh.

We could all use the laws of attraction as a guiding star sometimes (be less clingy, have your own hobbies and passions, be a little elusive and never lose your self respect or allow people to abuse you). We could all benefit from self betterment (hitting the gym, dressing better, eating better, being successful at work/financially). But none of us need to develop a "women are worthless inferior ovary sacs" mentality. Caring a LITTLE less about what other people think might be helpful. Caring not at all makes you a fucking psychopath. And a misogynist, in this case. If you want a disproportionate amount of power in a relationship, try consensual BDSM.

This probably should have been on a venting subreddit, I dunno. I just needed to say this because I recently slept with a trp enthusiast in person before I realized what it was, and it left me so fucked up and miserable. Please PM me if you need to talk, I'm happy to listen to others vent.