I'll keep this brief. The entire Red Pill and to a lesser extent PUA paradigm teaches guys that their only chance of finding love and female companionship is to totally overhaul themselves. The act of getting a girlfriend requires constantly working out, improving your game, and probably buying more TRP / PUA products.

In real life, I see guys all of the time with girlfriends, and yet they are: short, not body-builders, they don't obsessively study game, and are just normal people.

By contrast, the guys I've known from "the community" seem to struggle in this area. How effective is a system when just regular fucking guys have it easy, but when you delve into the pickup and / or TRP mindset, suddenly it's this long complex process?