Hey everyone,

I'm glad I found an ex-TRP subreddit. In a nutshell, I swallowed the infamous RED PILL 2 weeks ago. Why? Because I got cheated on in my 3rd relationship. Excuse me. For the THIRD TIME!!! That means, 3 consecutive relationships where my heart got shat on. And man, swallowing that pill felt good. It made all the sense.

It was all the answers I needed to hear. Women always cheat (AWALT), AF/BB, hypergamy, blah blah. Man was I raging. I opened up a Tinder account and started acting like some weird alpha douche. It worked, to be honest. But I wasn't happy. And I didn't want to be not happy. I was in a deep, dark place where I was bent on inflicting revenge onto these women, "spinning plates" and breaking their hearts.

Then I took a step back. I remembered something my ex said (the cheater):

"....it sucks being cheated on. R***** cheated on me after 2 years of dating. I kind of became a feminist after that"

cough cough how did I miss that red flag? That was my fault. But I realized that I was going down the same path. I was becoming a "masculinist" or Red Piller. I had gotten cheated on, and so now I was going to cheat on girls. It's a viscious cycle. More importantly, after analyzing my past, it's apparent that I had always gone for the INSECURE GIRLS!!!! Why? Because I WAS INSECURE! I STILL AM INSECURE! And this is my problem. It's not a problem with the women in this world.

The truth:

Just like men are diverse, some are players, some are genuine, some prefer monogamy, some polygamy.....women are diverse too! I remember this one girl....Lauren....from college. Outstanding character, pretty, very strong to her morals and values, smart, disciplined, huge heart, loved volunteering and helping the poor. I've seen guys try to "game" her with the alpha, cocky, bs but she was above all of that. Like some supreme female. She ended up dating (and is now married) to this really cool, genuine guy. He embodies a lot of the characteristics I wish to embody. Strong, smart, confident, yet honest and helpful etc. Really an outstanding guy, who landed an outstanding girl.

So basically, like attracts like. And if you are going to be an insecure RP'er, you are only going to validate the things you believe in. For me, my enlightenment has been realizing that women are humans, they are just as diverse, and while some may be "hypergamous" etc. that's not applicable to the whole gender.

Have a good day everyone.

TL;DR: Women are diverse