Fighting Hate with Love?

absolutebeginners · 2014-06-10T03:25:41+00:00

Sociopaths don't feel love, people trying to be like sociopaths probably wouldn't respond to such things.

FixinThePlanet · 2014-06-09T22:20:43+00:00

Why did you read TRP all weekend?

PoeDancer · 2014-06-10T18:21:21+00:00

Hello! Average girl here happily in a 6 month relationship with my SO, who would be considered beta by TRP. He doesn't lift, and is attentive to my feelings, and accommodates me. On the other hand, I try to the the same for him. He has chronic depression, so I try to always be there even if it's just to listen and hug him.

There are so many non TRPers in happy, loving relationships where you don't have to "maintain frame" or whatever else. You shouldn't have to try so hard to be the one in control, because if you really are happy it doesn't matter if someone else occasionally takes the wheel!

My SO says that when I found him, he had basically given up actively searching for a girlfriend. And I think honestly that's the best way- by not considering every girl you meet as a potential mate, you end up treating them like a fellow human being instead. And who knows? Some girls like that. :)

p_iynx · 2014-06-15T16:33:21+00:00

I'm in a super happy relationship with someone who doesn't consider me to be his inferior servant child. Last night, he got up to get me an ice pack and make me tea because I'm sick. Yesterday, he went to the store to get me soup and to pick up some basic groceries...and when he got back he realized he forgot the soup. So he went back and got me soup, even though I was like "I have other stuff I can eat, it's fine!"

My boyfriend is amazing. I have a really hard illness to deal with, and he is always happy to help me. He rubs my back in the middle of the night when I'm in too much pain to sleep, carries me to bed when my hips and legs feel broken from pain, holds me when I'm overwhelmed and sobbing. He is the reason why I'm able to get up every morning and face the world. I am so grateful to my man.

He also is the "support" in our relationship right now haha. TRP would surely find him to be an insufferable beta lol. He is taking a couple classes while I work full time, so he does the majority of the cooking and cleaning. It works well for us.

There are so many good men in the world. Don't lose faith. :)

laskuraska · 2014-06-09T19:04:58+00:00

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BubbleGumPop87 · 2014-08-30T15:33:48+00:00

Girl here who has been called various slurs by terpers while trying to show them how messed up and inaccurate their ideology is.

Can we please petition those at reddit on-high to remove the whole TRP sub? They would have to go to other subs to complain, get downvoted to oblivion and maybe, just maybe, see the error of their ways?

aaron_the_just · 2014-06-12T18:19:54+00:00

Currently, I only see fighting hate with hate. For example, on PurplePillDebate I was told I am "bad at life" and "not a person worthy of being helped to become good at life" a few minutes ago.

Edit: Solely because I am a "Red Pill" person (not because of anything I actually said/did).

Title	Fighting Hate with Love?
Author	KillerBeetz
Upvotes	8
Comments	15
Date	June 9, 2014 5:03 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/27pkli/fighting_hate_with_love/
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