So there was a question posted to r/tinder about a guy asking if he should break up with his otherwise awesome girlfriend solely because she’s his same age and a single mom and he still wants to have his own kids:

I met someone on Tinder. Didn't realize she was a single mother until we had already started chatting. We get along really well, and it's been the best sex I've had in my life (we're both in our early 40s). All has been great; she's responsible, loving, and her kid seems also great. The thing is that now it's been about 5 months and this is suddenly starting to become a serious relationship, and being in a relationship with a single mom is not something I had ever envisioned for myself. What are your general thoughts on this, Reddit? I feel I'm in love with this girl now, and breaking up with her only because she's a single mom seems wrong. At the same time, you only live once, and I do want to have kids of my own some day.

 

Pretty much everyone on r/tinder roasted him to low hell for being 40+ and thinking he’s too good for a single mom and planning for kids in some distant future.

 

... I can’t help but feel like this is the future of most redpillers. Well past the The Wall still talking about wanting “kids of their own someday” but feels they’re too good for single moms. And cluelessly approaching that age where it’s creepy AF to still be single and where there will be a hard drop off in women under 35 who will be willing to date them.

 

Failing to find a wife before 40 pretty much guarantees you’ll be dating mostly single moms because most women 5-10 years younger will have kids. Assuming you can even get a woman more than 5 years younger because overwhelmingly couples are within 3 years of age.

 

How are you planning on reconciling that better men got to the best women first?

Point blank, a lot of the sane, more desireable women will have had kids by then. The “leftovers” will be women you allegedly don’t want because they’ll be cat ladies or something by 35.

And don’t tell me you’re all planning to date 25 year olds at 42 because statistically that’s a pipe dream.