Physical

  • 20years old, 202 lbs, 21% bf. 240 lbs ORM bench Reading
  • Books TRM I, TRM II, whole sidebar
  • Currently: reading The Biblical Masculinity Blueprint Spiritual
  • Gave my life to Christ 3 years ago
  • I go through phases with bible and prayer consistency and I’ve not been intentional about time with the Lord for the past two weeks Finances
  • Currently a sophomore in college majoring in Management of Information Systems and Finance

Problem

I feel socially stagnant due to my choice (or lack there of) in friends.

We all really just fell together in college with none of us being intentional about making friends. Here are some relevant facts

  • My social group is ~7 guys who met through a college Christian organization
  • We share Christ in common which is great but our personalities are quite different
  • I’ve been thinking how much our friends shape us and I’ve realized I don’t want to be like them. They don’t help or even exacerbate my worst qualities
  • A majority are anti-social and don’t bring around any new people
  • I am locked into a housing contract with them through next school year

The main issue is that I feel socially stagnant and isolated in that I’m on an island since new people aren’t brought around.

I want to stop feeling trapped and connect with men who desire to improve one another. I’d love to hear some practical steps to take or any personal experience you have.