6'5. 210lbs. 14% bodyfat.

Bench: 235 DL:410 Squat: 315.

Career/Life/Finances: Have my own business that I run full time from my favorite coffee shop in the summers or my apartment(College student). It's related with web design, has become more passive over time and allows me freedom to pursue my other goals. (For example I'm obsessed with learning a new language, I'm a BJJ practitioner (purple belt, I do gymnastics, I do yoga, I travel alot) I try to do tons of different stuff basically).

Spirituality: Got saved 2 years ago after rejecting God for the longest time. Encountered Christ in a real and meaningful way, and I changed my ways. Read the Bible daily, have become obsessed with apologetics, and also lead a group at my church on Sunday's. I would say I have a decent baseline of knowledge and have come a long way, but still have a long way to go.

Situation: I have a girl that I sort of discipled/baby sister zoned. She's 19, I'm 22. I've realized that this was my first mistake by not having a female friend disciple her instead and I engaged in it because of my attraction to her and also I suppose because I'm generally a kind person.

She spotted me at church, and after we met we hung out there in service about 8-10 times plus one on one plus a few times outside of church. She bought me coffee the first time, and then after that I reciprocated the gesture and we've alternated every time since then.

She also bought me coffee beans and reusable straws, I discipled her and tried to instruct her about the scriptures. I also tried to get her involved in the community, and she has been hesitant because of her somewhat introverted nature.

I thought this was a bit strange but brushed it off as nothing. Then, she hits me up out of the blue, asking if I can invite her to BJJ because she really wants to learn.

At this point I thought she might be developing feelings, but also remembered that she was very interested in learning martial arts (her mom used to be viciously beaten by her absent father). But to play it safe, I just told her I don't think that's a good idea and she didn't press the issue.

Now, (I haven't seen her in two weeks) I got hit with the feeling of missing her. The only communication we had was when she texted me during the week saying it was on her heart to tell me that she's thankful for me and that she appreciates me.

So (stupidly), I texted her saying I'm sorry but I don't think we should talk anymore, and she freaks out sending 10 texts in a row, calling a few times, and eventually texting again saying she was looking forward to hanging again and that it was her turn to bring coffee.

Because I have no heart whatsoever, I stupidly responded "sounds good". And now it's been days and I'm regretting it because now I owe her a proper explanation.

I don't know what to do, or the right way to handle this situation. We've hung out, as friends one on one, but I've never made a clear move on her in that way because I was afraid of ruining the friendship/discipleship.

I could either

A) Do nothing and maintain radio silence.

B) Call her and tell her how I'm feeling/explain

C) Meet her and tell her how I'm feeling/explain.

What do you guys say about this?