Hello everyone, see post history for intro.

We're both in college, and are getting volunteer hours at the same place. She had mentioned once at volunteering that she spotted me at church, and we kind of hit it off after that.

We've hung out a bunch by now, getting coffee and sitting together in church service alot and what not. I've been to her house, and we still do the volunteering. I haven't like gone on an official "date" with her. The only thing we've done is hug, playfight and I've manhandled her a couple of times throwing her over my shoulder and what not.

I had been in a relationship and gotten out of it right around the time that me and this girl met. I wasn't interested in her at the time because of that, although I had noted that she was really attractive.

So recently, she took a bit of a step forward it seems. She had hit me up, saying that she had gotten me a present that she would give me at church. It turned out to small gesture, coffee beans and reusable straws because she's very into saving the environment.

I appreciated it, but one of our co workers had gotten wind of it and now apparently it's a rumor that I'm dating this girl.

I couldn't care less, except for the fact that I actually like her now, and its going to ruin our friendship if I tell her that I want to date her.

If she just wants to be friends, then this story ends and we'll never speak again. If she wants more, then I'll ruin her because I'm a pretty horrible person and not a good boyfriend at all.

It's like a lose-lose. Let me know what yall think