I found r/RPChristians yesterday. I am starting from a place that will require a long journey. I'm 5'11", 250lbs, 39% BF and this is down 30+lbs in the past couple of years.

I have already started working at my diet and that is going well. I will resume lifting this week and will be consistent. This sounds like a silly question, but does anyone have experience coming from my physical situation and how long it will take to start to gain the aesthetic from this point?

I also have much work to do to become the true leader of my wife and family. I ask permission far too many times. I travel for work and my wife works outside the home. That will not be able to change anytime in the near future, so it's something I will have to work around and through.

Your prayers and advice are appreciated.