Physical

  • 20years old, 202 lbs, 21% body fat, Can’t do many of the main lifts due to 2 ganglion chats in my left wrist. Over a year ago I did 235 x2 on bench and have gotten bigger since then. Reading
  • Books TRM I, TRM II, Modles by Marc Manson, Sidebar: for singles section, 100s and 200s
  • Currently: reading through John and To Live Is Christ To Die Is Gain Spiritual
  • Gave my life to Christ 2 years ago
  • Bible reading: have always struggled to be consistent in this area. I’d say I average around 2-3 times a week
  • Prayer: I have made it a thing to pray in the shower. I’ll usually have a long 10-15 minute prayer session about 3-4 times a week where I just bring my everything to the Lord and struggle forward through stuff
  • Haven’t shared my faith much. Am going through Young Life training currently to mentor and share the gospel in the future. Finances
  • Currently a sophomore in college majoring in Management of Information Systems and Finance with a 3.46 GPA
  • Fortunate to have my father paying for all of my expenses for my 4 years How does one maintain being the AMOG within a group of guys. I’d say a majority of the time I’m the alpha with in my college household of 6 guys (including me). I’m really good with AA but it seems like the only tool in my arsenal. An example 5 of us went to play sand volleyball and piled in my friend car. It was 10 at night and I wasn’t looking to play super long before starting I say “best 2 of 3?” met with minimal reaction. “K, 2 out of 3 it is”. 2 of 3 set ends and talks of more volleyball begin. Me: “We played 2 of 3 as agreed” Driver: “I drove were going to play more” Me: “good things there’s Lime scooters (rentable electric scooters) right over there” proceeds to put on shoes and others begin to follow Friend 1: “I’m kind of done also” Friend 2: “I see that Friend 1 and u/RPwisdom are the pussies” Me: “yea, I think I’m actually on my period I need some vagisil” (yes I know vagisil isn’t for periods but it was funny) group laughter a minute passes and still talking about playing more volleyball as we drive back Me: “We played our 2 of 3 that I stated before we started” Driver: “Honestly, I just drown you out sometimes” group chuckle At that point I was got. What am I going to do there? AA that and say “yea I drown me out too”? Looking for your insights as to how you handle groups of guys.