Hi All,
First just want to give a big thanks to this community, I have been a lurking here a little bit since I discovered it after separating with my wife. To make a long story short (and familiar to other stories) was beta in marriage, wife lost tingles asked for divorce. Told her I disagreed and wanted to go to counseling and meet with our pastor, she declined started going to clubs and dancing with men within a few weeks before we even looked at divorce papers. I discovered red pill but had troubles with the mostly secular view point of it all, was angry for a long time with my ex-wife. Currently I’m at peace with it despite that I felt my ex-wife sinned against me and sinned against God and worked on improving myself and at the time my crumbling relationship with God.
Ive since lost 40lbs since I started looking after and taking care of myself. Relationship with God is getting back on track like it hasn’t been since I was a much younger man, and I feel like God has opened a door and is calling me to the other side of my country. God put on my heart when I was angry at my ex-wife the parable of the unforgiving servant and at that point I just resolved to let go of the anger and let God take care of it and I would just forget her and move on with my life. The trouble and where I am conflicted right now is my men’s group leader at church asked me if I was going to meet with my ex-wife one last time before I leave, he mentioned it might be good to let her know in person that though I have moved on I do forgive her as one last act to her showing her Christ’s love/forgiveness. I could use some more opinions on this as I was pretty dead set on just forgiving her in my heart and never speaking/seeing her ever again. Do you guys think I should do this or just let sleeping dogs lie?
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