Hey everyone,

I just wanted to share a realization I just had. I recently ended a LTR with a girl I thought I was going to marry. One night when we were out celebrating a friends birthday at a bar my ex and I got into an argument. It was the first time we had gotten into a pretty serious one too, little squabbles here and there, but nothing like this.

Now normally in the past, especially with confrontation, I would just apologize (even if it wasn't my fault), kiss her feet, and pretty much go beyond what was needed to make her happy again. However this night felt different. I had discovered TRP a few days before this event and vowed to become more of a man this time around and not be such a doormat.

So when this argument started becoming heated, instead of apologizing, or bending over backwards, I just stopped. I literally just stopped arguing with her. I asked the bartender for the tab, paid, and told my girlfriend that I was leaving and I will talk to her when she's calmed down. Luckily, we were with her brother and friends so it made this decision to leave her much easier for me.

She sat there in shock with a dumbfounded face when my words and actions sank in. I was pretty angry with her behavior and I let it show, something that I had never done before. When I started getting my belongings she started pleading with me to stay. It was like a switch inside her was flipped. She quickly started to apologize, almost teared up, and started becoming more affectionate when I did decided to stay.

As the night went on it's like her behavior did a complete 180 and she started to act like the girl I originally fell for. Even her brother and his friends seemed to respect me a little more - like the occasional teasing stopped and they even bought me a shot.

The best part about this night was that when we went back home, we had some of the best sex of my life! She was turned on and already wet before we even got to the car. She told me in the morning that it was the best sex she ever had. I was able to do things with her I never could before, (she was kind of a prude before this). After that night I was hooked on becoming more dominant!

I also started to see all the flaws in the relationship, albeit I blame myself and my BP ways for them, but it was like swallowing the right pill this time truly opened my eyes.

Sorry for the format and if this sounds like bullshit or whatever, but it's what happened and it is what got me subbed to TRP.

Just wanted to share it with you guys, take care.

EDIT: I am glad to see that my experience is making it's way around. I'm glad to know that I am not the only one who has had experiences like this and I am even happier to see you guys sharing some knowledge in order to make us better men. I use to shun this subreddit, and man what a fool I was. Listen to me if you are still on the fence about accepting this philosophy - JUST TRY THESE IDEAS ONCE - just fucking once and I guarantee you will see a positive difference.

EDIT II

TL;DR In relationship that was making me unhappy. She embarrasses me at bar, had RP theory in my brain for first time. Try it, it works wonders. Didn't fully swallow it so flip flopped between BP and RP. Finally went full RP. She didn't like it, can't say I blame her. She got use to BP me, liked RP me, then RP me disappeared. I don't blame her, all me. Should have been RP from start. This stuff works, and not just with women.

Also I originally posted this on the main subreddit. I just copied and pasted it over her.