So I’ve met this girl about a month ago, been talking to her I’ve met up with her about 5 times so far. She’s extremely shy In person and it’s just weird it’s almost like something is off about her. She’s involved in church and has a good relationship with father and rest of her family. Which is great, but here’s the deal I know she likes country music and other girly type music and if we were together I’d always turn on my rock/heavy metal. And if a popular band/song came on I may ask if she’s heard it or if she knows who this is, well apparently she knows every classic rock and heavy metal song in the book...which is bull. I get the idea she was just agreeing with me because she’s scared to state her opinion or something i don’t know. She’s done it with other things too. Also, a friend of mine has been dating a friend of hers for over a year I just found out she knew them. Well, I’m not very fond of this other girl and we just got to talking and I made the mistake of telling her one of the crazy things that this other girl had did to my friend “she pulled out his guns loaded them and threatened to shoot up a place” so I kind of called her out on it like “what does that say about you hanging out with somebody like that”. Well the other day we meet up and she tells me she’s no longer friends with that girl. Which i don’t care that’s not my business but I feel like she was saying that for my validation or something. It seems as if she doesn’t half much confidence or self esteem either, and I know most girls don’t but I barely know her because she gives me one word replies to big questions or it’s like she ignores me. She also tries very hard to act nice and seem like she’s good which is a load of crap. I’m a Christian and I know I’m a sinner but I’m still full of faith for my lord and savior. She’s a few years younger than I am she seems like she’s just not experienced the world how I have. I understand it’s not all sunshine and rainbows and you have to earn and go after what you want I’ve been brought up very self-reliant, she has not. Are these things red flags? Would there be future problems based off of these things? I don’t know if I should just forget it and break it off or if I should give her a little bit more time to see if she comes out of the shell and shows off her personality better. I’m at a loss with this one, any advice would be much appreciated!