Red Pill for my wife?

hexagon_hero · 2017-12-24T04:13:59+00:00

I wouldn't advise you to say anything at all.

She'll won't respect your growth until she sees it, and giving her something akin to the list of goals you've set for yourself before they're accomplished will only make her see failures in the inevitable misssteps and setbacks on your journey.

Red-Curious · 2017-12-24T04:25:10+00:00

If you mention anything with "red pill" in the name beware. Think of it like you're a magician on stage. There's someone in the crowd who loves your magic and is fascinated by the whole thing and even dabbles in it a bit herself.

Now, imagine pointing her to a website that explains how all of your tricks are done and it's where you go for all of your content. You think, "This would be perfect for her! It's just the kind of thing she'd love!" And she does love every second of it. She pores into the theory, studies the concepts, trap designs, etc. and is impressed at how much you've been able to master for use in your act.

And then she shows up to your next show. She wants to be impressed ... But somehow the magic is ... gone.

But yes, women are welcome here. For Christian women this will hopefully one day be a better forum for her than RPW. As it stands, there's not much harmony between TRP/MRP and RPW. RPW even recently had a popular post that explained that RP women do not want an RP man (in the TRP sense, at least). They have embraced the same core set of truths, but have different agendas in utilizing them.

In Christianity this is different. The male and female agendas are in harmony (albeit in a very convoluted way, due to sin), so an RPC man and an RPC woman should naturally be drawn to one another. The only problem for your wife looking to this sub at present is that we simply don't have enough women to give her a reasonable breadth of perspective from her own sex. I'm okay with that and don't intend actively to seek to change the status quo on this, but I'm also cool if a shift happens ... just have to see how that plays out when/if the time comes, and would probably have to crack the whip more on modding.

[deleted] · 2017-12-24T18:08:29+00:00

I’ve pointed my wife to a blog called Notes From A Redpilled Girl. Very insightful and well written posts, for both men and women.

I’ve talked more than I should have to my wife about my journey, and it has come back to bite me a couple times, so the best thing you can do when first starting out is STFU and lift.

ruizbujc · 2017-12-24T00:58:33+00:00

I'm pretty sure Red wants this place to be mix gender, as I've never heard otherwise. So, she's welcome here if you've already spilled the beans on the "red pill" phrase and this is better than red pill women for a Christian crowd.

Otherwise, if she doesn't know the red pill by that name I wouldn't introduce her to it, including through red pill women. If recommend Laura Doyle books in that case.

StingrayVC · 2017-12-24T11:55:13+00:00

Try "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" by Dr Laura Schlessinger and "The Surrended Wife" by Laura Doyle. Also the blog Finer Femininity. There are other blogs as well if she searches for them. The important thing for her to understand is that she's not going to agree with everything on any blog. Women have a tendency to see one thing they hate and dismiss everything else. Don't let her do that. Submission is about trust in the husband and faith in God. These are GOOD things. Her natural tendency will be to fear submission because of everything we have been taught. If she can get past that fear, she will find the good. She will not be able to do it if you're not strong enough to lead her.

OsmiumZulu · 2017-12-25T05:16:49+00:00

What change, specifically, do you want to see in her?

BluepillProfessor · 2018-01-02T03:05:10+00:00

Is there value in having her pursue red pill wives sub reddit

No. The only value to Marred Red Pill Wives is if she finds out what you are studying and googles Red Pill. They might be able to calm her down. There is little value in the Red Pill associated place Red Pill Women and no value whatsoever in the Red Pill Wives that broke from The Red Pill Reddit. JMO

If she will read The Surrendered Wife I would start there.

Rian_Stone · 2018-01-02T14:16:21+00:00

Lol, no.

100% no.

There are TBP trolls and RPWi there. Go check it out for a bit and see if you can tell the difference. The one about the accidental pregnancy is a good one e.g.

Title	Red Pill for my wife?
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