Sorry up front, i searched i promise. I only post after looking through the sidebar. I see that this sub is aimed at marriage. Im very, very single. So.
27M, 6’2, 200 lbs, good shape, ~100k salary, etc.
I am god fearing. I am learning more about the faith. I am attending church(es) and listening more.
I do not consider myself a Christian because i have never been able to have the faith and love required in my heart. I have just a few pretty damn ugly skeletons in my closet. I have no idea how to be a good enough person or have the dedication to not succumb to sin.
My n count is something like 35, i have no problem being honest about my faults. I have validation issues that obviously have to be addressed as well.
How do i “date well” without being steam rolled by some good girl church girl who expects a BP beta bucks? Also, i am hoping some of have been in my shoes in terms of my position with religion.
Any wisdom at all would be great. I struggle with myself on a daily basis now and its only getting darker.
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