Hey guys, I feel I need to get this off my chest, and ask for advice.
I guess I should give give some backstory first:
I'm 18, just graduated high school, currently doing nothing. I've never been in a relationship in my life. I've had girls interested in me, but I'd always turn them down because of insecurities.
A while ago, on the internet, I found the Red Pill, and I liked a lot of their stuff. Self-improve, spin plates, mess around with lots of women. Seemed nice to a young, insecure virgin like myself. I began to dive deep into the Red Pill stuff (but didn't apply it), exercised every now and then, and I thought I was doing good.
But, I also began watching a lot of pornography, thinking of the things I would do once I began 'spinning plates', and dove deep into that as well . . . eventually TRP and Pornography led to me to develop some very nihilistic, materialistic, (etc) views of the world, and life. They made me view women like objects, and not as humans. I pushed a lot of family and friends away. I got fat and full of acne. Everything went downhill for me.
So, here I am now. A loser, struggling with my addictions, and at the very bottom. A couple weeks ago, I had a panic attack, and somehow, someway - I found my way back to God. I poured out my soul to him (while dealing with panic attacks) and when I did, the fear and anxiety left, and I felt a sense of peace wash over me. It was surreal.
I've been reading the Bible every day ever since (past 2 weeks), and just recently went 1 week without pornography/ masturbation; but eventually all good things must come to and end - Earlier today, I was online, came across a triggering thumbnail, the urges got to me (I should have stopped myself), and I relapsed, twice . . .
The thing is . . I'd like to lead a better life. One where I'm strong in my Faith, Strength, and Mentality. Free from vices. And with a Strong Wife and Family of my own. I'm shooting far and wide - yeah, I know. Though, I'd like to reach out to you guys because a lot of you know much more than me, and I need your help. I can't do this on my own.
What can I do to improve? The new year is about to start and I'd like to really change this year. I want to start my life as an adult on the right note. Thank you to those of you who reply to this lost child. Sorry if this is all over the place, btw. :)
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