Both sides have valid points and some may have had truly traumatic experiences at the hands of the opposite gender. Unfortunately most people (male and female) tend to be quite shitty meaning this cycle continuously perpetuates with previous victims joining in the cycle so as to better protect themselves (hurt people hurt people). This results in simple generalizations such as ‘all men are trash’ and ‘await.’ It’s easier to generalize an entire out group than someone in your own group.