How the MGTOW negativley stereotypes and trash women, how is that any different than how women generally stereotype and trash the heck out of Indian men?

I am Indian but born and raised in the USA and but so many stereotypes were thrown at me that it allows me to essentially see "both sides."

I grew up being treated like dirt because my skin color is like dirt. Because of this I said regardless if I liked someone or not, I would never make them feel like how I was made to feel.

But the disdain towards us Indian exists. I was once told online that "all Indians smell," by an self proclaimed "anti racist." I don't smell, I don't have bad manners, I'm no pervert and never viewed women badly except for falling into the red pill trap over the past few years.

I have thought should I poke fun of these stereotypes on my profile or should I put a disclaimer that I don't smell like stale coriander, I shower daily with shampoo/ body wash, I brush my teeth 2x a day, I can cook my own foods, etc but honestly it hurts me to even think that I have to do any of this.

One day though, I realized, I am a great guy and falling into the hole of viewing women the way MGTOW views women and how women view Indian men are one of the same and I would be a hypocrite for supporting one while being against the other.

So the past year, I changed myself back to a earlier version if me with a few caveats:

One, I distanced myself from any friends or acquaintances that mocked my ethnicity. Sadly, I never realized how racist most of my friends where to me.

Two, went back to my spiritual self.

Three, healthier living (diet, exercise and water).

But unfortunately, I don't look like a Bollywood actor so I am struggling trying to get women to look past negative stereotypes and my mind is creeping back towards MGTOW.

Any advice?

I don't care if a women doesn't like me because of my skin tone. That's fine. It's the association of the negative stereotypes and treating me that the stereotypes are automatically "me," is what I am most bothered by and to me, this is what makes me wanna lean back to MGTOW ...