What to make of women who defy AWALT?

blacwidonsfw · 2015-03-23T18:18:27+00:00

Awalt is not that all woman are currently behaving in that matter. Its simply that they have the capacity to do so at any point. Just because they haven't, doesn't make them an exception, it just means the conditions haven't materialized to cause her to act on those tendencies.

Taikal · 2015-03-23T21:46:19+00:00

Big guts, no jobs, issues with the law. And a good number of them got hot chicks who stand by them even after they cheat and lie and all that shit.

This is actually a textbook example of AWALT. Set aside the big gut part and OP actually describes the type of "bad boy" alpha women are attracted to like bees to honey. Gaming women is much more about attitude than looks. There are plenty of high SMV betas who spend most of their lives friendzoned and butt ugly alphas who get plenty of pussy and keep their women in check.

2015-03-23T18:50:05+00:00

AWALT is the basic programming structure. Each woman's biology and environment will build upon and flush out that structure differently. Some portions will be more prominent than others. Some will be stronger motivators than others. However, for 100%, it is all there somewhere and it is all involved, however minor the involvement, in supporting her psyche.

The other closest analogy I can think of is language. I think it's fairly well established (though I could be wrong) that we have biological underpinnings for language. It's in each and every normal/healthy human. Of course, we don't all learn the same language. Some languages can be extreme from the norm, involving clicks and whistles as much if not more, than other sounds. However, while the manner of expression can vary greatly, linguists (as is my understanding) will tell you that language follows the same needs/answers paradigm. They all have nouns and verbs, modifiers and conjunctions. They all have ways emphasis for conveying emotions and times. In short, not only is the need (as opposed to capacity) for language universally hardwired into people, so the need for that language to provide certain capacities for the speakers. It's the same for women. They have a basic sexual reproductive strategy (hypergamy) hardwired into them. Likewise, what that strategy must allow for (AF/BB) is also hardwired. What differs is how the hard wiring is expressed as dictated through her environment/experiences.

cock_pussy_up · 2015-03-23T21:12:55+00:00

I know plenty of men who are downright losers from the neighborhood I was raised in. Big guts, no jobs, issues with the law. And a good number of them got hot chicks who stand by them even after they cheat and lie and all that shit. I see these girls get hollered at by better specimens and no dice.

This is very common. That's why it is funny to me when people act like men need to be ripped with a 8-figure salary to get women.

mrp3anut · 2015-03-23T21:59:57+00:00

AWALT does not mean that all women will in fact "ACT" like that given the opportunity. It means all women are wired with the same basic emotional drivers.

Not sure if you have much experience with physics but take this simple analogy.

Women are like a box at rest. There are several forces acting on this box, and there are the physical properties of the box itself such as the friction coefficient, density, surface area, etc. AWALT describes the physical properties of the box. The forces can range from current societal expectations, social conditioning from her youth, current expectations from people she respects, her life situation, and a myriad of other external factors.

So for your aunts case. You are wondering why she doesn't move from her current place to somewhere else. The coefficient of friction for her box is no different than any other womans box and yet hers does not move. Why is this? The simplest answer is that there are other forces acting on the box that you are not accounting for. This could be a fear of what people would think if she abandoned your uncle, deeply held religious beliefs, hormone levels making her disinterested in sex, etc etc.

FortunateBum · 2015-03-24T02:43:50+00:00

You're evaluating men like men evaluate women.

It's different for women. Men are attractive according to their access to status/resources. Looked at that way, all women, without exception I think, are like that.

Your uncle has a source of income I assume? A pension? The way a man looks is almost irrelevant to a woman. It can be a signal of status, but women learn early that it probably isn't. If your uncle will die soon and leave her his estate, why would she cheat? She's got every reason to stick around.

Sex for status resources. That's all women are. Leykis 101. Jane Austin says the same thing. Read Pride and Prejudice. The reason that's a female fantasy is because the protagonist marries for money and she discovers she kinda likes him. For her, it's a dream come true.

SW9876 · 2015-03-23T19:08:14+00:00

Women could stand by men with lower SMV for dozens of reasons that don't go against AWALT. For example, maybe they are afraid to leave an abusive relationship. All of the reasons that come readily to mind are those of fear. Fear of societies judgement, fear of being alone, etc.

mordanus · 2015-03-23T23:20:45+00:00

One example is an aunt of mine

And you know she has been completely loyal? How would you know this? Women don't tell people they go whoring around. They do it quietly and do their best to not let anyone else know.

I know plenty of men who are downright losers from the neighborhood I was raised in. Big guts, no jobs, issues with the law. And a good number of them got hot chicks who stand by them even after they cheat and lie and all that shit. I see these girls get hollered at by better specimens and no dice.

There is obviously more to this than you are seeing. First off it isn't how hot the guy looks. It is how masculine he is. Physical attraction is mostly a guy thing. Women love hot guys but it isn't everything for them. It's not even most things. If these fat ugly guys get the girl then it's for something else

issues with the law

Oh there it is... the bad boy. Sooo yeah awalt here man. If you aren't seeing what's attractive about these men then that just shows you're not a woman.

RunawayGrain · 2015-03-23T18:29:29+00:00

Think of AWALT as a guide, not a rule.

cock_pussy_up · 2015-03-24T09:51:16+00:00

stereotypical alphas boldly come at her

Men have no standards. There are lots of men who run around trolling for any pussy they can get from 12 to 70 years old. But after they get the pussy are they going to stick around with most of those women? No. They'll ejaculate and then leave because they got what they wanted. I would think that most women should have figured that out by the time they're in their 60s.

HeadingRed · 2015-03-24T15:58:53+00:00

AWALT can be 24/7, most of the time, sometimes, seldom etc.

You may have one who is solid 99% of the time- but that 1% can still do damage. Its why keeping AWALT in your mind keeps you safe and sane.

jb_trp · 2015-03-23T18:45:55+00:00

Like I've said before, you need to think of AWALT as a spectrum:

AWALT <-----> NAWALT

The more left the girl is on the spectrum, the more AWALT characteristics she shows (kind of like alpha/beta traits). The more right she is on the spectrum, the less AWALT traits she shows, or at least with less frequency. However, all women are AWALT because they're all on the spectrum. Even a really good, solid woman can be AWALT if put in the wrong situation.

cmiovino · 2015-03-23T22:10:34+00:00

"What to make of women who defy AWALT?"

Glitches in the Matrix.

All kidding aside, AWALT is a general rule. Bank on it when unsure, it's probably applicable 90-95% of the time on whatever topic you're assessing.

Title	What to make of women who defy AWALT?
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Date	March 23, 2015 6:10 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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