Am I being fucking stupid?

Was-Erlauben-Strunz · 2020-01-09T14:00:52+00:00

Gonna sound simplistic but why not just try it without abandoning what you built ? You can travel and experience all that for a month and see if its worth it (since you have a high income). There are literally bjj camps, train by day and game by night.

The grass is always greener and so on.

Be rational even regarding gut feelings, you can act upon it by objectively comparing the places (economic, social and cultural criteria for example), experience it and then make an informed decision.

ClockLad · 2020-01-09T14:03:52+00:00

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hoopingblob · 2020-01-09T14:43:09+00:00

Hmmm... Here's something that I hope is useful for you.

I had an uncle who had the perfect life. He was rich, had a beautiful girl, a nice car, a nice house and he basically was always somewhere else. One day tho he broke up with his girl, sold his house and car, bought a ticket to sically (my home country) spend all the money to buy land and sheeps and he became a Sheppard. I asked him why did he do it and he answered with something so wise I still remember to this day:

"Too many people think they have it all and still want more. They hold on to the things they have and still try to gain new stuff. I realized that I had to let go of my past life in order to get a new life with new experiences that I could learn from. I just did what I felt was right"

He is happy to this day and healthy as well. Just do what you feel is the right thing to do. If it means letting everything you have built go then so be it.

gsp9511 · 2020-01-09T14:15:09+00:00

What's up with this plague of an ideal to drop everything you've built in a lifetime to go and "travel the world"? Fuck that, honestly. It looks to me you're being a delusional romantic.

In your current situation you've finally come to a place in time where you can benefit from all your hard work and still keep on improving.

I think you should investigate within yourself what is it that you truly want out of this life. Don't be so quick to take such a drastic decision with irreversible consequences. Yes, you can probably build up everything from scratch later, but is it really worth it to go through that hassle again?

What's stopping you from just taking some time off, a vacation? and maybe take your LTR with you or just end things with her since you want to plate other women and have some latina ass.

I'm sure you can also find the free time to work on your blog without risking everything else.

Just my two cents.

vandaalen · 2020-01-09T17:29:59+00:00

Age 26

This is your problem. You commited too early. this is why we constantly tell you to not commit until your mid thirties or even later.

The crabs here will all tell you to play it safe. I say do whatever makes you happy.

Sure the grass is always greener on the other side, but you'd also not want to take your last shit after 50 years of boredom, wondering what could have become of you.

throbaley · 2020-01-09T14:06:08+00:00

Do you really want to put your future in the hands of some internet randoms who have absolutely no stakes at your happiness?

What if we tell you just do it and you lose your portfolio, get in an accident or some other shit to ruin your life? Do you think people here will feel bad about themselves for giving bullshit platitudes of "just follow your dreams"? Or what if that turns out to be the best decision you have done in your life completely changing your life for the better and opened doors you have never thought about?

And what if we tell you dont risk it so you continue doing what you are doing constantly unhappy with the gnawing what ifs rushing in your mind everytime you put your head on the pillow.

Its your decision, your life, you are the one who will live through the consequences of that choice be them good or bad. If I were you I would see a therapist to see why I want such a drastic change in my life. Am I depressed, truely unfulfilled, just looking for a thrill?

BodomDeth · 2020-01-09T15:33:37+00:00

Topic aside, how do you make 5k/month by being a personal trainer at 26?

Very large social circle who are also your clients?

PerryWinkleTheThird · 2020-01-09T14:46:53+00:00

Like everyone is saying, grass is always greener. It just depends on how much you’re willing to risk. 3-5 years down the line you could think that you screwed up your entire life by dropping your career and the best woman you could find. Ok the flip side, things could go wrong with your career and your ltr and you could wish you had traveled the world.

My suggestion would be to build up your blog/online content before you commit to any longterm travel. Make sure that you have a consistent revenue stream before starting anything - you can build a blog based on “travel” with fairly little actual travel. Plenty of people do it. My sister and her husband made the mistake of starting their travel/van life fantasy before making sure their online blog/business could earn them money.

Once you can ensure consistent revenue from your blog, test out the travel. Do somewhat small trips both on your own, and with your LTR. You should know what choice to make after that.

821sleepingbag · 2020-01-09T15:45:21+00:00

Ngl idk how much money you can make with a fitness and girls blog. Like would I read about some jacked dude taking about how big he is and how many chicks he fucks in Brazil, hell no. There’s already too many cunts out there trying to give advice.

In the short term it Sounds like a good plan but will run aground real quick without a way to fund yourself going forward.

Smuggler-Tuek · 2020-01-09T17:05:52+00:00

As a long time MRP member, for the love of god do not sacrifice what you want for someone else’s wishes. Honestly most of marriage sucks and you have to have your shit REALLY together for it to pay off at all. Remember that the relationship you have now is a fantasy that will fall apart the second you say I do. The entire dynamic changes and don’t think for a second she will care that you chose her over your dreams. She will think less of you for it. You know deep down what you want so do that.

Vivek0001 · 2020-01-09T22:21:48+00:00

This might sound harsh, but its my opinion. I don't want to dilute it, if I am going to make an effort to comment I have to keep it real.

You don't deserve a good girl like her.

Man up, learn to take responsibilities in life, quit running way acting like a little boy.

I am not talking about the traveling/blog part here, this is for your LTR.

Think about it, wrong it seems from a third person perspective, your whole life you search for a good girl, and when you get her, and her respect and her trust. do you really want to act like a bitch and run away making excuses?

I suggest, do a deep introspection, try to find the reason for your insecurity. It might be just due to the idea of settling down given your current mindset or something deeper.

personally if I was at your place, given that the girl is a good human at heart and likes/respects you, and you both have a good understanding between you both. I would never let her go.

And mind you I am not suggesting to stop your blog and travel dreams, you can still do it, or you can both go on travel together, it will be a good experience, and you will get to know her better while making some life long memorable experiences.

ps- If you are doubting your love for her, and/or unable to form emotional bonds with girls even after LTRs, I will suggest to breakup with her. and from now on try putting your conditions straight up.

together or not, hope you both have a good life.

izzyinjurious · 2020-01-09T14:30:15+00:00

You’re asking on here. You already know what you wanna do. Just do it. Life is short to be tied up all the time. Go fucking do what you want. If it doesn’t work out, build yourself back up again. Or just hate life because you never did it

rugged79 · 2020-01-09T16:42:58+00:00

The answer is nah.

Like most people already said, establish the Blog. Vlog is probably better of you're more photogenic and can speak comfortably into a camera. Faster acquisition of followers and social media buzz.

Or take a vacation to Brazil while working on the Vlog/Blog.

As far as your relationship, just let her know you think the relationship is moving too fast and want to take more time to enjoy just being with one another.

Chicks are in a rush to be married and have kids because they're uncomfortable with themselves. Or they have underlying issues and think marriage and kids are a magical elixir that's going to fix everything.

Or break up with her if she doesn't want to slow down. Some women have an agenda. To some of them, their agenda is even more important than their actual significant other.

fannyfire · 2020-01-09T14:54:50+00:00

I say the same thing and I’m married. Whenever my wife talks about kids I have my days where I’m excited or polar opposite and think holy shit. Either way, if you walk away from this chick you better have a good frame. You two will always have had a kid, even if it was a miscarriage. That sort of shit haunts a woman so be ready for that shit storm if you do decide to bail.

2020-01-09T15:09:09+00:00

Try it before you buy into it. Test drives precede the purchase.

NabroleonBonaparte · 2020-01-09T15:17:07+00:00

You’re not stupid because you’re taking the time to think all of this through, but you are thinking a little impulsively because you’re at a crossroads for the direction of your life.

Here are the major things that you need to ask yourself:

1) Do you actually love this girl enough to keep her around? She needs to actively be putting effort into your mission, she doesn’t just get upgrade status because she spreads her legs for you. If she isn’t helping you reach your goals, you should think hard about whether you want to keep her around. Consider why her being pregnant worried you but her miscarriage relieved you. You’re definitely not ready to be a dad and play house. She’s just pressuring you because in “female world” she’s sacrificed to be with you (sex, pregnancy, miscarriage, etc) and feels that she needs to recoup her investment.

2) How do you think your career will look when you’re 35? You said you’re financially stable right now, but you need to have a plan set up so that the money steadily increases as you move through your 30s. I think it would be foolish to drop your clients. Clients = steady money. If I were you, I’d jumpstart that blog idea and collect all of my clients info so that I can transition them into digital clients. Learn how to sell digital products (training/nutrition programs etc) through Gumroad and Twitter/website so that you can be location independent. But don’t go cold turkey, keep your current income source until you build your next one then decide if you want to drop your first.

3) You’re 26. You’re young enough to want to have fun but with 30 inching closer you gotta start thinking long-term stability. Travel isn’t an issue. You have plenty of time to do that, and if you successfully transition to your blog idea, you’ll have plenty of time and freedom to travel. Right now, I would take short vacations. Now about banging the Latinas, this goes hand in hand with #1. If you feel the same about keeping this girl as you do about losing her, dump her. If you keep improving, there’ll always be another girl. You’ll just have to put in the work to date and vet. Men don’t have a wall at 30, unless they’re poor. That said, banging those Latinas will be like getting drunk, it’ll be fun in the moment but you won’t have anything to show for it later. I’m not saying don’t do it, I just want you to make that decision rationally instead of believing a naive fantasy.

In conclusion, make a rough plan of how you want your 30s to look. Don’t just drop your stability for fun. The fun won’t disappear, but your stability can. You need money to have fun and if you have no money, you’ll be poor and bored. I’d also really think about if you want to be with this girl. It’s one thing for her to want assurance that you guys are serious, but it shouldn’t be a dealbreaker if you tell her “yes, but let’s move slowly.” Otherwise you gotta dump her.

SmurfSC2TW2 · 2020-01-09T15:26:05+00:00

My own personal rules: if you ever need to ask someone else "should i", the answer is always yes. For you to ask in the first place already means something.

Given that you seek external validation, I can conclude:

(1) you don't like the status quo, else you wouldn't even ask

(2) you weight two options equally, else you wouldn't even ask

(3) you believe can't influence the odd nor the pay off, else you wouldn't even ask

Hence, always choose the action. At least you get out of the status quo. The actual outcome, no one knows.

Psychological_Radish · 2020-01-09T15:28:22+00:00

Sounds to me like you're just bored.

High achieving men aren't satisfied coasting through life. There always has to be a new goal and new challenges. Traveling can fill that void because the world is so big, and there's always something new to see. I've loved traveling since I was a kid. I still feel a rush when I step onto the airplane. But I wouldn't want that to be my life. Traveling is like eating or fucking or any other sensory experience. It's fantastic in the moment, and you should probably get it out of your system when you feel the urge, but there's no real long term goal.

Before you go that route, I would be sure that there isn't some other underlying issue. Is it bodybuilding work that isn't exciting? Or is it the question of "now what?" that has you down?

The woman issue is a bit different. Rollo once said that he could accept settling down with his wife because he'd already banged models. Sounds like you still want to try other girls from different cultures. I know I do. We're the same age, and the idea of settling down with a monogamous LTR is an alien thought at this stage of my life. My intention is to spend the next 5-10 years smashing.

medsreddit · 2020-01-09T16:05:34+00:00

I would say that your story reminds me of women who leave their bfs to fuck around the CC and that youre stupid but thinking about it, I think you should leave. You'd be getting what you want and your girlfriend doesn't deserve you anyways if at the idea of commitment you want to run away. Just go dude

throwing8smokes · 2020-01-09T16:14:40+00:00

Sounds like you need a vacation, and might be bored with what you got. Why don't you take a week to a month off to recollect and gather your thoughts. You could be burned out a bit honestly. You could be burned out for months, which is why your gut is like "fuck it all" bc it's giving you stress.

TFWnoLTR · 2020-01-09T16:38:20+00:00

Follow your gut. You're only 26. Traveling for a few years isn't going to fuck you over in the long term.

You obviously want to do it, so do it. Odds are, after a month you'll miss your old life and come back to it. Then there's that chance you never want to come back and it ends up being the best decision you ever made. You won't know until you try, and if you don't try it will eat at you for years.

Just book a flight already.

maljo24 · 2020-01-09T17:03:20+00:00

Go, travel. This is the time in your life to do it.

lolomotif12 · 2020-01-09T18:24:08+00:00

You think you're confused but you're not, you just need to think. How you felt when your LTR was pregnant is your true raw feelings about all this. You are 26 and have a long time to still find a good LTR and build a family so that's not a good enough reason to sacrifice your youth and life for. As for the work, you can still persue your business after your travels or find another industry where you can use your experience to continue where you left off. Everything you currently have in life you can replace, the only thing you can't replace is time and that's what you're sacrificing. Not a good trade off if you ask me.

urbancore · 2020-01-09T18:39:08+00:00

do not start a family till you are in your 40's.

she should be at least 15 years younger than you with:

great looks, zero debt, a career, a stable group of friends, great genes, great work ethic, loves kids, good credit, a low n count. She should not come from a divorced family. Never try to fix a woman, its not your job, it's her job. Can't take care of kids if you can't take care of yourself.

When you are in your mid 40's, you will still be attracted to 20 yo and they will be attracted to you...bad. And you will be in a marriage for the last 20 years with teenagers at home sucking up your time and money.

Reverse that:

First you get the money.
Then you get the power.
Then you get the women.

Source.....my life....lived exactly like that. The caliber of girl i dated as a successful 30+ was completely different that what I dated in my 20's. And I don't just mean hot. The best of the your social circles will beat a path to your door, and you choose. I settled down at 40, wife is 12 years younger, now 51 with a 3 and 5 yo. Life is great. Family is amazing, wouldn't change a thing.

Marriage is for older successful men and younger men. You both have to bring something to the table....you don't have shit yet.

the-bro · 2020-01-09T18:44:21+00:00

Sounds like LTR is making power plays to try and lock you down, and your brain is telling you that you do not want that.

Good girls are hard to come by but there are many out there. Stop thinking she's the ONE for you because she's not the only one that could have your kids.

You're in a good place in life. Good earning power, strong position. Many girls would compete for someone with that kind of material.

I say trust your gut. Stay away from drugs, take some alone time and reflect on what everyone here is telling you. Don't make any rash moves yet. You may find that you do want to settle down with her. You may find that you do not, which was your gut instinct upon finding out she was pregnant before "entertaining" the idea of passing on genes. Remember, once you've had a kid with her, there's no going back.

Good luck bro.

11-Eleven-11 · 2020-01-09T19:46:39+00:00

Why not travel and do all that with your ltr?

haxewep24 · 2020-01-09T20:52:28+00:00

Stopped reading after you said you are built like a pro bodybuilder lmao. Are you 220lbs on stage? Lmao

barragan14 · 2020-01-09T21:03:40+00:00

May or may not help....

Last year I had a really good relationship with a good girl with career and degrees ; pretty good chemistry, good looks, all that....

In the meantime training for boxing and getting in shape.

Towards the fall one of my assignments required me to travel a lot. One of my trips I decided to have some fun and cut ties with the girl to do so. Felt bad about it but i felt it was direction I needed to go in. I am still traveling even more and will be consistently for the better half of this year.

So far I’ve met some pretty great people and some really good women. Although temporary, I’ve seen that the more you grow as a person, the better quality people that start to surround you. There is no way I could go back to the girl I left now after all I’ve done so far and what I have learned.

Experience and adventure come at a price. There’s always sacrifices When making decisions that will change your life. Just make sure your measuring them carefully. If you think you can manage a new life like that, than go for it. Just don’t expect to fall back into things as they were before, because that life will be gone. You can risk it all, and get nothing. Or get everything. But just like any challenge, it’s what you make of it.

psychotropy · 2020-01-10T00:18:35+00:00

It sounds like you've got the sort of girl worthy of your commitment man...As others have said, the grass is always greener ... until it isn't... But, it you really and truly need to get it out of your system that badly, look into taking a BJJ vacation in Brazil for a month. Go alone, train, & get some Brazilian ass.

I'd personally stick with the good girl, job, etc...but I get the allure of going out into the unknown. Just remembered, time passes real fucking fast. So if you're not willing to give this girl what she wants (which appears to be a life with you), it's only fair to not waste any more of her or your time.

marlboromans · 2020-01-10T01:46:48+00:00

Don't get me wrong, travelling is good fun but you need to decide whether it's worth dropping/altering your current mission for.

Weigh up whether the trip would be the same as you view it in your mind - I found in Asia the stray dogs, pollution and garbage everywhere alongside not trusting the locals who often harass tourists for money somewhat destroyed my idealistic view of the place, and I was glad I only opted for a 1 month party based holiday (which is always fun) rather than committing to longer because I NEEDED to be back in a first world country by the end of it.

MassiveWerewolf0 · 2020-01-10T12:04:28+00:00

Another thing to consider is the fact you say you want to drop everything including the girlfriend to travel (and bang other chicks). Perhaps this is just a roundabout way of breaking up with this girl - you might just be yearning for this physical space between you both because you need a 'faux' reason to call it quits which is better than being stuck in a circle of uncertainty. Have had these thoughts myself.

tefllifestyle · 2020-01-12T13:19:59+00:00

I quite university and went to travel the world and i am happiest than ever. Been to over 30+ countries.

One thing i advice is make sure your financies are setup properly and that you also think about your future. Meaning you should save money aswell and try to invest it wisely. Do not live on the edge financially.

You can always find a girl in the future who is willing to travel long term with you if you pay for the expenses. Harder option is they have a laptop job. Some ppl even travel with their kids full time.

Do not let your current life limit your imagination. If you work hard things can be achieved.

WolfofAllStreetz · 2020-01-09T14:24:43+00:00

You’re 26 and doing well, remember women do not age like wine they age like fish.

Enjoy your life, why get so serious with her. She is trying to lock you down.

You may want to mosey into MRP.

MagicPiper · 2020-01-09T15:45:04+00:00

Since you can afford a year, do it.

“Don’t worry about failure, worry about the chances you miss if you don’t even try.”

muricanwerewolf1 · 2020-01-09T15:52:08+00:00

Both of those choices sound like a pretty good life to live. You just have to decide which one is you.

thetotalpackage7 · 2020-01-09T16:21:14+00:00

Go for three months and see how you feel. You dont have to dump this chick. If it was meant to be she'll be there. She doesnt need to know about all the banging you're doing- just wrap it up.

temerity18 · 2020-01-09T17:26:55+00:00

Whatever you do make sure you have offspring because YOU decided to have some. Not because a woman decides to trap you. Don't make the same mistake twice. Like Rollo says: always be in control of the birth.

extraterrestial · 2020-01-09T17:55:21+00:00

Your 26, you can have kids and Seattle down when 36, go live your life now, Seattle down later.

bilabrin · 2020-01-09T18:10:39+00:00

You should say exactly this to her.

Maybe take out the part about BJ's and Brazilian ass.

Whatever you decide your relationship and your life with or without her will be better if you tell her the truth.

She may say something that sways you one way or the other but either way, standing on honest ground is the most refreshing and freeing relief you'll ever feel and whatever comes of it will be burden-free and better-informed.

Gaidsbola · 2020-01-09T18:41:34+00:00

If you truly desire to do those things then do them. Yeah you’ll seem like a ass hole to the world for abandoning her but if you have the means to make traveling the world happen and if it’s what you want then do it. Remember there is no “The One”. You’ll meet other girls like the current ltr that can fill that role. Every guy has many “ones” that he cochleae settle down with. Most never meet any except for one due to lack of abundance. Look at it this way maybe the miscarriage was nature’s way of saying not to procreate with this girl.

Youngyoda89 · 2020-01-09T18:50:03+00:00

I can’t believe you make 5k after taxes as a personal trainer! Fuck! Where the fuck do I sign up at?

PreEntertain · 2020-01-09T19:10:50+00:00

I don't get why you don't take her

solstone109 · 2020-01-09T19:28:12+00:00

Trust your gut. As pook hassaid, paradise if said slowly is a "pair of dice". Roll'em if you gott'em

morningjoe16m · 2020-01-09T19:28:59+00:00

How long did it take you to make 50k? I just started as a personal trainer in nyc in November and am making $15 an hour $26 when I train someone and tbh this shit sucks so far.

tonivevo · 2020-01-09T20:09:58+00:00

Hey OP,

I was thinking about the reaction that your LTR has when she had this miscarriage.

I actually feel her reaction was triggered because she felt extremely insecure and not enough of a woman due to her miscarriage.

First of all, god bless her. I wish her the best.

But be aware that this is also a shit test when she was begging you to stay and commit to her exclusively.

Make the (right) decision based on the man you think yourself of. I would talk to her and tell her that you love her (if you do), but also talk about what you want in life and she has to adjust if she wants to be a part of it.

And ditch your job. If you are already thinking about it, then there is a high chance that you become miserable if you continue to do so.

I quote a wise man from Nigeria: “Being a man is not a day’s job.”

unnatural_by_nature · 2020-01-09T20:17:18+00:00

Sounds like someone has been reading Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck.

If you haven’t, you need to. He addresses your “dilemma” repeatedly throughout the entire thing

rockyp32 · 2020-01-09T20:17:51+00:00

Honestly it won’t let it’ll be fun for a while but eventually you’ll probably feel empty cause u don’t have a purpose

Victimized · 2020-01-09T21:01:08+00:00

lmao 5k a month? you a broke boy

Zanford · 2020-01-09T21:26:40+00:00

Do a short term version of your plan, aka a vacation, maybe do it for a summer (or whatever the low season for being a personal trainer is). See if it's what you really imagine. It may suck, or it may be great but then you got your fill after only a month or two.

What would your plan for income be while traveling or living in Brazil? If you just plan to live off your savings as you say, are you sure you could get your job back or an equivalent one when you got back?

Do you speak Brazilian Portuguese?

Is your vision of Brazilian women informed by actual boots on the ground experience or by looking at Leo's girlfriends and Victoria's Secret models?

You need savings - personal trainers are one of the first expense for people to cut in a recession.

Your plan would be better if you could line up a personal trainer gig at your destination - gives you money, another way to meet bros and women, and something to give you a sense of purpose (I doubt you're gonna daygame every single waking hour in the parks there). Even working a random job at a BJJ studio there would be something, would give you some money, connections to locals bros, and probably free gym usage.

There's a good chance your LTR 'forgot to take her pills' and had a 'deliberate accident'. It's even possible she was never pregnant (did you ever attend a Dr appoint with her or see her piss on the stick?) and was hoping it would get you to propose (or get you to stop using condoms / give her an excuse to go off the pill, and then she really would get pregnant!)

iillegally · 2020-01-09T23:09:13+00:00

At least use a fucking condom retard.

Cfo77 · 2020-01-09T23:42:09+00:00

Nah bro stay a bachelor for life man, kick that hoe to the curve. Her value as gone down move on to the next bitch

academicRedditor · 2020-01-09T23:52:58+00:00

Running away from responsibilities?

dwayneglasscock · 2020-01-10T00:12:10+00:00

If this is what you really want to do then you will regret not doing it down the road.

PimpinAce175 · 2020-01-10T00:12:14+00:00

She’s not going to be hot forever, women are like cars, they lose their value over time

onionknightofknee · 2020-01-10T00:21:59+00:00

nothing stopping you from successfully blogging now while working.

xxx69harambe69xxx · 2020-01-10T01:48:27+00:00

you should do it

intl_plyrs_clb · 2020-01-10T02:53:18+00:00

First and foremost: Don't let other people tell you they know the rules for you life.

If you have a gut feeling about it, follow your gut.

Sounds like you're overall doing well in life, pull the trigger, try it out and if it isn't what you want, move back.

As for the girl: You should never be afraid to pack it up and leave.

Or don't. At the end of the day it's your life

PhaedrusHunt · 2020-01-10T02:53:55+00:00

Dude you got a get out of jail free card.

Now you're asking if you should go straight back to jail.

Go with your gut man. I know you're nervous but take it from me as someone who lived out of the country at a younger age than you-- You only get one shot at this life. Dig in and fucking go for it man.

theUnBannableHulk · 2020-01-09T13:57:52+00:00

YES.

Didn’t even read the thread but when a Man asks himself that question the answer is invariably YES. Gonna go read now.

Edit: YES (with caveats)

You haven’t specified if it’s a cucked country or non cucked. If non-cucked, and she wifey material (but AWALT remember) then nothing stopping you from having mistresses on the side and traveling while she preggers. Also, yeah your biz is gonna take a hit, blogging ain’t all that it’s cracked up to be but you sound like a solid dude who can handle setbacks. Non-cucked is: country that does not have no-fault divorce, alimony and child-support.
If cucked country then your plan to travel and spin plates is better provided you still have a realistic timeline or plans of marriage and settling down. If you choose hedonism and nihilism then I will say YES it’s a stupid decision to give up your genetic legacy but it’s your life so do what you wanna do. Also PRENUP in cucked countries as you’re gonna regret when the bish divorces you and takes your shit and your kids. In fact, if you go this route just don’t marry or bring back your wife to your cuckland srs.

Andrew54321 · 2020-01-09T14:43:25+00:00

Follow your gut.

covertpenguin3390 · 2020-01-09T15:12:18+00:00

Stupid? No. Outside of having a body builder body i have what you have and double the money almost. And I’ve already done some traveling (Brazil twice, Africa, japan, Europe, Peru). I’m engaged to a girl that is as close to a unicorn as possible. I’m 30. And i still have thoughts of dropping it all, including the chick. That being said, i don’t have the looks you do so while i never had girl issues, i swim in a sea of 6s and 7s when I’m single and remembering my last single period of a year, most girls are just trash and after a while it gets old.

I recommend not just nuking everything instantly. Go take a two week trip somewhere alone or with a male friend. Not with your chick. Make it to the dream place you’ve wanted to visit. It’ll let you clear your head. See if you really want other pussy. If you’ve never traveled abroad before you may end up missing America (or wherever) faster than you think. You make good money and have financial security. While if you’re not an idiot it’s not that hard to accomplish, trying to replicate somewhere you don’t know the language can be a bitch and i doubt you’ll have the same earning potential in a poorer country.

As for Brazil, it’s a great fun country. It’s where my fiancée is from so i also am pretty in tune with their culture. If you’re a white American, and learn Portuguese (more difficult than Spanish but similar language) you would crush pussy like it’s going out of style. American dollar is 4:1 there so for a vacation your money takes you super far. There’s a ton of crime so you need to research where you stay. Don’t think you can couch surf in the favelas or some shit. Food is good. A really fun loving culture. Tons of places to visit in the country that would probably take you over a year to hit them all. Before you just quit your life though i would take a two week trip there to São Paulo e Rio de Janeiro to see if you actually like it. Their economy is in the dumps and I’m not familiar on the work visa system there. But tourists can visit for free at least. Let me know if you have any Brazil questions and i can probably answer them. Except for BJJ, i don’t know much about MMA.

AnneStaz · 2020-01-09T13:59:56+00:00

niggling lol

AnneStaz · 2020-01-09T14:00:50+00:00

Drop it all and travel the world, doing a few months here few months there wherever you feel like dude. I've been doing it and it's fuckin awesome. If you want any tips just let me know. There's a huge digital nomad community out there and everybody is usually really cool. You make the cash to support travel + decent studio pretty much anywhere you'd like with a few small exceptions. You'd have a blast.

teabagabeartrap · 2020-01-09T14:48:01+00:00

I think this EVERY Time I order food at a restaurant.

I order a rumpsteak with butter and the person near to me a ripeye and some secret sauce. And everytime I think "should have ordered that".

But no, this is just my greed to want it all. That is the Lizard brain speaking, turned on my media, that we have all options we want, etc....

In reality, that what I ordered is my favorite food and I enjoy it the most... the thought about something different is just, that I forgot and didn't appreciate what I have... In reality it is the best! (and yes at this point I recommend to google for conan - what is best in life at youtube ;))

Enlightened_Chimp · 2020-01-09T15:07:46+00:00

Gut Instinct is never wrong.

Title	Am I being fucking stupid?
Author	KingsLiving0908
Upvotes	92
Comments	125
Date	January 9, 2020 1:50 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/em9w1a/am_i_being_fucking_stupid/
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