Does hooking up with low value women lowers my value?

JameisBong · 2020-01-03T19:53:03+00:00

No,just don't take them seriously. Sluts are for recreational use only.

[deleted] · 2020-01-03T22:45:54+00:00

Yes. And people who don't care don't say they don't care and don't make reddit posts about it. You'll get away with occasionally fucking a girl you shouldn't have on a night out while drunk. But when you're habitually fucking low-value women it's because you're low-value as well.

If you'd be seeing high-quality women and doing other interesting things you honestly wouldn't even have the energy to text one of those girls...

If you can fuck a hot slut, do it. But nothing in your post tells me this is the case. Everything tells me you're fucking girls you don't really want to fuck because you can't get anything better. And you protect your ego by thinking you can get better simply because you ignore them and there is assumably a high quantity of these girls out there.

Massap24 · 2020-01-03T20:22:32+00:00

Over thinking this banging sluts is okay. Preselection applies when women see that other women want you, it makes them curious. Unless these sluts are like 3/10 it will only help you. If you find these sluts attractive bang them, any advice saying for you not to because of what a woman will think is beta af.

jacques_cousteau007 · 2020-01-03T19:48:38+00:00

Yes. It’s called preselection

If a girl walks into a bar you’re already in, and you’re chatting up everyone and holding court by the bar, she will assume you’re high SMV and desirable

If she finds your social media before your first tinder date, and sees pictures of you with your fat ugly ex, she will assume the opposite

DoesItMatterTooYou · 2020-01-03T20:30:08+00:00

If guys started shunning them they would have to be more desirable but I guess there is always some thirsty dude that will bang a skank.

Bleh.

I'd rather rub one out than deal with a low value woman.

kclanton80 · 2020-01-03T23:42:56+00:00

If you have to ask the question then you must feel your value is being lowered.....

Honestly it's not good for your esteem. Especially when you're banging chicks you don't even want to be seen with in public. Everybody has had some slumpbusters in their day.... But they should not be the norm. Pursue better!

You are going after the low-hanging fruit because you don't have confidence that you can get more high quality women. Otherwise there would be zero reason to do it

Cheeseydick6969 · 2020-01-03T20:36:03+00:00

Be seen with desirable women.

I don't remember where I heard this but " fat chicks are like scooters, they're fun to ride but you don't want your friends to see you with one."

319Skew · 2020-01-03T22:56:33+00:00

If they are hot then no.

If they are ugly, fat, old then yes.

Zanford · 2020-01-03T23:25:31+00:00

It only lowers your value if higher-value people find out about it, and/or it becomes a crutch that saps your desire to shoot higher

Or you get an STD

MarvelousWhale · 2020-01-03T23:54:51+00:00

Does hooking up with x make me x?

No it does not. Doubting your desires/goals does, however. Worrying about other people's opinions and gauging success based on their perspective and not your preferences and perspective will guarantee you second place at life, at best.

Don't set yourself up for failure by doubting the path you choose to take to success. You need to walk the path you instinctively feel you want to.

That being said, low quality vs high quality is subjective and varies greatly from man to man, almost all of my friends drool over big titted blondes where I can't stand their bimbo personalities, and prefer to go for the tattooed dyed hair goth or punk bitch that my buddies wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole. I absolutely could not care less what they think, and you can bet your sweet ass that they've commented on it at every opportunity.

There is no right or wrong, only what YOU want vs what YOU don't want. Everything else is just noise of the matrix. If you feel you're going easy on yourself by going for the 3 because you're afraid of the hunt for a 7, you're cheating yourself. If you're afraid of your friends opinions that they look down on you for hooking up with a 3, but to YOU she's a 7, fuck their opinion. You do you.

Davidfosford · 2020-01-03T22:36:53+00:00

yes, high-quality women will see you as not high quality, but also you are surrounding yourself with traumatized women with daddy issues. To attract those girls you have to dance around their trauma and lie and manipulate them to get sex

EinsteinPicasso · 2020-01-03T23:15:50+00:00

"You can't touch without being touched."

Whisper · 2020-01-04T00:30:21+00:00

No, sperm is cheap. You don't lose value by giving it away.

redmaxz · 2020-01-04T04:39:12+00:00

Only if you tell the whole world that girls are low value.

johncillo · 2020-01-03T22:44:31+00:00

No, remember the power of pre-selection, according to Mystery Method they are your lever to achieve better looking girls, use them as your advantage, if they are your friends you can kind of use them as “wingmen”

Thefreeman911 · 2020-01-03T22:55:58+00:00

It's a ladder my friend, either stay on your step or start climbing.

jenovajunkie · 2020-01-03T23:35:39+00:00

No, why would it.

MrTheFalcon · 2020-01-03T23:57:33+00:00

If you're asking the question, then maybe there is a better use of your time. It could be time to set a goal and achieve it. You'll find sex along the way, but it will be more gratifying because it's secondary to your mission.

mickenrorty · 2020-01-03T23:59:41+00:00

Quality over quantity is advised for sex. 2 a week on rotation seems to tricky for me personally,

Sex is just like any drug... you don’t want to over do it

[deleted] · 2020-01-04T00:17:40+00:00

Yes, it does.

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2020-01-04T01:41:24+00:00

You answered your own question in the title.

TheeSakred · 2020-01-04T02:23:43+00:00

I personally only go for high smv, and curve most average girls. Anyone can get low hanging fruit.

RompeChocha · 2020-01-04T08:02:30+00:00

Are you having fun? Shit, I've been banging some older not good lookin woman for 2 years now. Not a looker, but she knows how to ride my dick.

Ghrev_233 · 2020-01-04T08:37:03+00:00

hooking up with low value women?

it does give you some confidence and some abundance mindset.

it lowers your value when you're seen around with them. preselection and DHV my dude.

hopelesshotel · 2020-01-04T10:13:29+00:00

Mr_Badass · 2020-01-04T22:38:28+00:00

If the world was an RPG game you are like a Level 17 warrior killing Level 4 monsters. Yes you will get some experience from killing but it won't be as satisfying killing monsters your own level. If you want to improve fuck quality girls...if you just want to have fun go fuck 4/10s lol.

Title	Does hooking up with low value women lowers my value?
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