I've been spinning 3 plates. One is a solid FWB once a week deal. The other two have been dates.

Plate 1 is off tinder, couple dates now, nice, great lay, very sexy, quite giving. Potential gf. By far no unicorn, but who is these days?

Plate 2 I met on NYE at a house party. Very pretty girl (probably prettier then plate 1) but arab ethnicity yet "not practising."

Plate 3 FWB

The pendulum has been swinging in my head between plate 1 and plate 2 about potentially dating them exclusively (and by exclusively in their heads and still keeping my FWB to keep me sane).

However a brief background:

Plate 1 works in beauty, massages me after sex, is kind, always makes an effort and messages me first. Is a bit naughty but not slutty yet, she's always keen to meet, and she always drives up to me and I take her out locally. We never run out of stuff to talk about and so far no game playing. After 4 dates, its been very fun indeed. Shes 24.

Plate 2 is a mystery. Three dates in, and on the third I finally got her over. She only really talks about herself. One of those "me me me" girls and she works in fucking retail so her life is boring as fuck clearly. Not much of a texter. Hard to read. Paid for my meal on friday which was surprising. Got her back to mine but we spooned no sex at all. A bit of texting the next day from her and so far so good.

So I promised to try and keep the weekend free from my plates, but I realized I am away for work the whole of next, so Ideally I tried to initiate another thing this weekend.

Plate 1 has been keen and said to meet her saturday.

Plate 2 however, has changed. She texted me on the saturday night (whilst I was with plate 1 blowing kisses etc) then we texted on the sunday I was planning to go to the movies to take her out, but she was working and I was tired. I texted her yesterday to arrange something to which she said she has a "busy week" bla bla bla.

She then stopped replying to texts (unlike her) I texted her asking her about a friend of hers whos not well what happened, she didnt reply. This morning I pulled a lil prank on her for april fools she laughed, but again, a bit of convo, asked about her friend who wasn't well and still no reply.

The other plate loved my lil prank on her, and even sent me a photo of what to look forward to on saturday.

I naturally know now, the plate 2 arab chick is playing hard to get/losing interest in the space of 24 hours. Literally from blowing me kisses on saturday night, to texting me all sunday and how she'd love to go cinema, to a "busy week" and lack of replies to basic questions.

Add on top of that how shes relatively selfish, and hardly ever asks how I am, and only talks about herself.

This is why plate spinning is so so important. 2 weeks ago, I wanted to be with plate 2. Good girl, hot, good family all that shit. But lately, her "princess culture" (sorry arab folk been there and done that before) is shining through. She will make me work too hard just to fuck her, and also she was clearly catching feelings being in bed with me, that she's done what every girl in 2015 like that does and tries to be "a guy about it."

No thanks, I'll take a side order of plate one please. And guys if you are dating and are unsure of someone, make sure to have 2 or 3 on the go in the initial stages as it will create abundance for you, and will help you make a wiser choice.