Ok hear me out. My SO is the sweetest guy I have ever met. He gives my affirmation, he always shows me affection, always compliments me. He is the most loving and sweet guy ever. He hears me out, helped me get rid of my anxieties and improved my healing form cPTSD. We live together, were exclusive from the beginning, he does not play games with me, has never done anything even remotly stupid, as dreading, gaming or shit like that. He never yells, we almost never argue and we plan a future together. He is a home lover and intorvert, a bit on the nerdish side (though I am a bigger nerd)
But I lerned he used to be redpilled. Like hardcore redpilled. He read PUA stuff, never wanted a serious relationship, dreamed of spinning plates and getting ripped. I probably wouldn't even tell by the way he behaves although there are some things still left in him (he is a bit afraid or marriage and likes vey feminine girls, luckily I am so naturally so we just clicked and he never forces me to do anything). I am just super anxious he will one day slip back into that toxic mindset he had. Is there any way I can somehow forget and not think about the person he used to be, as I see he has changed completely and is sincire in that. Is it possible to turn 180 form the red pill ideology and become a decent human being?
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