This will be my first long-form post in r/TheRedPill and I think it will hit home to a lot of people. I lurk around here quite often and one of the topics that's the most debated is a woman's number. There's one subset or rpers that think it matters, and any woman over an arbitrary amount is ruined. There's another that don't feel the same and value what they get out of the relationship more. I got a lot of upvotes for my opinion on this so I figured I might write an article.

Lets first find out what exactly turns a man's gut about a woman's number. The number in itself, is used as an indicative of depravity. When a man finds out the woman's true number, her perceived slut value increases. But wait, I didn't get into an LTR to be with a slut! He thinks, either devaluing his pride and downgrading to BB or AFing his way out of the relationship. Either way, the reason for this conflict of interest is that sluts don't sell for LTRs.

But quite frankly, number is a very vague and uncertain metric for depravity. It's only real indicative is that if the number is really high, the woman is a depraved nymph pretty much every time. And what really chisels a man's pride right through the heart is finding out the subject was more slutty with a previous partner than himself.

That is the heart of the issue, the more guys she's banged, the more likely she's done more depraved things with someone other than her current partner. A masculine being is dominant by his very nature, and knowing someone's dominated her better than him, or at the very least suspecting it is the crux of the issue. This is what I'll define as the depravity expansion principle.

Every woman starts with a depravity of 0, and as they mature through various sexual experiences, the number increases. Every man wants to have access to the full extent of his LTR's sexuality, not just for enjoyment but as well as pride. Therefore, the only way to make sure a man is experiencing the best she can give is if he's the one expanding her depravity.

When does a man know she's experiencing depravity expansion? By constantly upping the ante. When she's so thoroughly dominated in bed that she blows or bends over on command, does anything he could think of, and doesn't mind being left tied up with an array of vibrators inside her. When a man reaches BDSM territory and beyond, no amount of one night stands and short lived flames with other alphas will change the fact that he owns her.

What happens when the BDSM alpha leaves? Her life is forever crippled. No future man of hers will give her the depths of ecstasy she craves, she'll fall back into a safe BB, or even a lower grade alpha, and settle as a 'good girl'. What happens when the guy finds out how she really is like in bed, when she barely even blows him? His pride as a man is broken.

tl;dr? fuck off this thread. Just kidding. Never stop upping the ante on sexual depravity with an LTR, keep pushing boundaries and by the time any dark secrets surface, they may even seem like a joke to you after all you've done to her.