[Q4M] how many of you can honestly say that you would date yourself if you were a woman?

WhiteningMcClean · 2020-01-24T15:42:28+00:00

The woman version of me would be out of my league. I already have a donk and a small waist, and based on genetics lady me would have huge boobs too. Damnit I could've been a bombshell.

TheJim66 · 2020-01-24T14:24:25+00:00

I would in a heartbeat.Im good looking,have a good sense of humor and I'm intelligent,loyal and caring.

Boy ,do I love myself

eightbic · 2020-01-24T16:09:56+00:00

I feel like this question has backfired.

jax006 · 2020-01-24T14:19:25+00:00

Yes I can honestly say that

Barely-moral · 2020-01-24T14:28:32+00:00

Yes, it is a shame and a tragedy that I can't find a female clone of myself.

gattaca_ · 2020-01-24T15:26:40+00:00

Yes, but I have low standards.

OttoVonBismark71 · 2020-01-24T15:02:17+00:00

I'm what you would call 'cute' or 'pretty' for a guy. I'm probably a 7, get a ton of interest from girls who are younger than me. If I go out and spit game, I can do very well. Whenever I go to gay bars with friends, I get groped and even stalked. Yet I still struggle on tinder, and I struggle IRL without game.

The equivalent attractive version of myself as a woman would basically be the ideal cute girl for all men. I'd be the prize.

NOTSM · 2020-01-24T14:23:16+00:00

Absolutely

My biggest weakness is something that doesn't matter for women.

HarassMyAnger · 2020-01-24T14:24:55+00:00

Of course men would date themselves; they arent high maintenance. There's a reason why gay men have the best couples statistics; most sex, lowest rate of divorce, highest happiness levels. What do you think that says about women?

You're crowing to the choir on this one.

JaJammerJan · 2020-01-24T14:39:50+00:00

I would date the female version of myself, but the female version of myself would never date me because she has much better options.

diffdedbed · 2020-01-24T14:20:43+00:00

I don't have female hormones and brain so I can't say but I'd date a female version of myself in a heartbeat.

AdamsAtoms038 · 2020-01-24T17:16:35+00:00

A female version of myself is literally my dream girl so yes absolutely

tristan65424 · 2020-01-24T17:32:00+00:00

No I have a pretty bland personality and am a little overweight.

viveboy123 · 2020-01-24T14:23:45+00:00

100% yes.

Notsonewguy7 · 2020-01-24T14:17:25+00:00

I would.

superlurkage · 2020-01-24T17:54:53+00:00

A better question would be, reduce your libido by an order of magnitude and throw in some privilege; i.e., you are now expected to do the majority of cleaning and cooking and social upkeep. Also, you will orgasm less than half the time. Would you date yourself? Would the juice be worth the squeeze then?

AramisNight · 2020-01-24T20:03:40+00:00

I once did one of those gender face swap apps and posted it online. I was very hot as a woman. The response among my friends was universal exclamations of how hot i was as a woman, with many of my female friends saying things to the effect of, they would never not be hitting on me. Feels like i lost the coin toss pretty badly at that point.

LongHairedPeterFile · 2020-01-24T14:17:29+00:00

I mean Im a straight dude so If I was a woman id be going for girls..

Workaholiconew · 2020-01-24T14:57:00+00:00

Considering everything with my brain and personality would stay the same, I would love to find a woman like myself. But again, I would be flooded by female hormones and in a female brain, so I believe it is not possible.

My sister has also huge breasts and a somewhat good face, if I also had them, I would have zero problem in getting any man.

abaxeron · 2020-01-24T15:46:09+00:00

If my female version showed interest in me instead of chasing the Chad? Hah.

YveisGrey · 2020-01-24T14:22:31+00:00

I would. I don't have kids, I'm not fat, I have a degree, I have clear skin, and generally take care of myself. I don't think I'm a bad catch at all but I am quite picky and risk adverse so that's probably my biggest issue.

IFuckingHateAllergy · 2020-01-24T14:51:06+00:00

Date? Hell yea. Marry? Probably not.

WOLFofwallstrYEET · 2020-01-24T14:18:32+00:00

I’d date myself if my chronic illness got better, so I’m working towards finding a treatment that will improve my health.

barbodelli · 2020-01-24T14:38:46+00:00

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm thats a tough question.

There are certain things that I really hate about myself. Some things I really like. Most of the things I like deal with my personality. Most of the things I hate deal with my physical appearance. Since I am lookist to the nth degree....... Then again I'm not THAT PICKY.

Now if I was a woman and I had the same looks standards. I probably wouldn't think "OMG he's so hot" when I look at myself. But I wouldn't necessarily get completely turned off either. I have some good qualities. Our personalities would match perfectly. Since we're both me lol. So I think I would actually make a pretty good match for a long term relationship.

Really depends on how picky I am and who my other options are. That's what makes this so difficult. If I had a bunch of better looking guys after me. Then just like my male self I may not stoop down so low. Even though it may be a better match all things considered.

2020-01-24T15:01:26+00:00

Being a female version of me wouldn't suddenly mean I didn't have any problems or flaws. I'd date me as a women accepting we both had pros and cons both ways, presuming as a women I would have equivalent issues and attractiveness. I say that though being a man with values shaped by experiencing courtship and relationships as a man and having been treated unfairly by some women. But if I'd been born a woman I'd be a different person and perhaps feel differently. Perhaps knowing social media gave me access to the richer and most handsome men, I might chase them via apps etc for my most desirable years, and after lots of fun and screwing around until sex nearly bored me, I might try to pin one down, get pregnant perhaps. If that fell through, I could lower the bar, so many lonely single men out there would have a single mum, if I felt that alone or needed the support. But having had a life of as about as much love and lust I wanted in my prime, I might be content to live later life as a spinster. But you know what, life doesn't have to revolve around trying to find partners or sex. I might just decide to be single indefinitely :P Learn, travel, help the needy. As a woman perhaps I would not have as much yearning for affection and affirmation from the opposite sex? Nor feel as much of a desire to have sex? That would actually be nice. I sometimes wonder if I'd be happier if born a woman.

Tyler_Gatsby · 2020-01-24T15:04:39+00:00

Duh, yes. I've been looking for that for forever, but she's always attached. I mean I get that too, duh.

ieatassonfirstdate · 2020-01-24T16:20:29+00:00

i would.

in fact, with couple of girls I've dated, people thought we were siblings

CainPrice · 2020-01-24T16:23:47+00:00

No way. I'm annoying. I'd be leggy as shit, though. And by not being a fatass, I'd never have to buy a drink.

AI_WAIFU · 2020-01-24T17:52:35+00:00

All go a step further and say that a gender bent version of me would more attractive than any woman I have ever met.

Million-Suns · 2020-01-24T22:32:11+00:00

No. I lift, shave, dress well, and can be funny and witty and etc. but that's all I got. I'm still 4 on the SMP due to bad genetics, and like 0 on the RMP because I don't want marriage, nor kids.

Not complaining though, it's liberating to be out of the monkey dance.

Just this morning I went to the gym to renew membership and I think I was the only dude not hitting on the girl at the reception. I just can't give a f**k anymore about relationships and seduction.

I'm frequenting these subs only out of boredom and because it's somewhat fun to debate.

HappyNachoLibre · 2020-01-24T22:36:40+00:00

I would not. Im a giant disappointment to myself and others, which is why i don't date anyone. This is philosophical question is the primary thing that goes in my mind when I am talking myself through the unending loneliness. I would not date myself, and it would be unethical to ask someone else to. So I will most likely die alone.

poison-fang-blade · 2020-01-25T01:08:16+00:00

So...a nerdy, slightly overweight girl, with the same sense of humor as myself, loves gaming and also is a degenerate weeb? I'd fucking marry her.

jacemano · 2020-01-24T14:18:54+00:00

I know I would.

I'm hot.

I have hobbies and friends, not a stay at home kinda guy

I have a career and future prospects

Enough women want to date me. When I'm out I get attention.

Marketing_Baboon · 2020-01-24T14:36:09+00:00

Easy yes.

NeedingAdvice86 · 2020-01-24T15:36:02+00:00

Well I am not a druggie, have zero anger\temperament issues, have worked at my own consulting across two continents for nearly a 8 years and live a varied, extremely exciting life full of adventure and fun. Being athletic and fit who spends basically tons of my free time at the beach or in the mountains (skied last night until 11pm, will be going to a concert tonight and sailing tomorrow) .

In hearing the PPD women, using their criteria I am going to have to say NOPE because they are looking for emotional, temperamental problem children who consider smoking a blunt and sitting around a dive bar\sub shop and exploring every nuance of every aspect of the "relationship" to be the height of exciting life....and since I don't think leaving the peanut butter out on the counter after making myself a sandwich is the "most special, intimate thing" I would ever do for my GF...I actually have much more imagination than would be prized by the standards of PPD women...it would have to be another NOPE according to PPD attractive standards. Too fit, too many muscles, don't look like a Jeff Goldblum\Howard Stern clone, too tall, don't look like a 13yo boy band reject....and a long list of other "I ain't one of those girl" PPD virtue signaled posts about what is "actually" attractive...I would say NOPE again.

If I could be more of a douche, less conscientious, more druggie, less successful, less fit and more boring\basic\conventional then I might be a prize...my family really fucked me up with this successful, conscientious and fun-loving personality...the bastards.

PS...I have a GF, been dating for going on 4 years.....so fooled her long enough and she came around to joining the fun.

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largepaycheckaddict · 2020-01-24T14:39:40+00:00

I would.

-Pretty good / symmetrical facial aesthetics -educated and read regularly - hit the gym 5 times a week and have a nice physique - cool physically active hobbies and enjoy cultural destinations such as museums and art galleries - know how to cook and clean - low N count and traditional Christian moral perspective -super driven in my career - wants kids and is willing to make sacrifices necessary to providing for a family. - I have a nice ass

My problems with dating aren’t that I can’t get a girl to be interested in me or that I’m an incel.. it’s that there is a sea of low quality women out there with all sorts of issues and it’s pretty rare to meet a higher quality woman who’s not all ready happy and content in a relationship or marriage.

Im sure most women have similar issues with regards to meeting men tbh.

30dirtyfingers · 2020-01-24T14:44:37+00:00

NeedRealityShock · 2020-01-24T14:47:39+00:00

If I liked a female version of myself I might as well go all the way and just turn gay, anon.

trixiethewhore · 2020-01-24T14:52:47+00:00

I have a job that makes me self sufficient with money. I take care of myself physically and mentally. I'm not looking for a dad for my kids, I have fulfilling friendships. I would like a healthy relationship but do not need one.

My worst qualities? Minor procrastination issues and incessant annoying (to most) hipster music.

wtknight · 2020-01-24T15:00:20+00:00

Sure. I think that I’m a pretty good person.

FairlyNaive · 2020-01-24T15:01:27+00:00

I wouldnt date anyone, I would be a turboslut lol

ctrl_f_sauce · 2020-01-24T15:04:14+00:00

I would totally pick up on my big dick energy, sans big penis problems. Plus the pension and medical.

2020-01-24T15:06:57+00:00

Sure would. She's be a little tall, but that doesn't bother me.

acenosk · 2020-01-24T15:12:41+00:00

Absolutely.

Skuggasveinn · 2020-01-24T15:21:55+00:00

Oh man. I don't know. I'd have a smoking hot body. Not that pretty so I'd double down on the make up. Probably be a total slut. I'd go on a few dates but definitely have a hard time committing. Thinking to myself, man this chick has got some weird hobbies.

dylang92 · 2020-01-24T15:37:15+00:00

Well I’m short, and have an average face. So as a woman I’d probably be tall with again an average face. So I mean probably? I have a lot of good qualities, I cook, I’m somewhat well traveled, I work out, I have a variety hobbies and interests, good relationships with family and a friend group of my own. But if I were to be like 6’2 as a woman, I’d probably be overlooked for an LTR.

slackbabbith · 2020-01-24T15:50:23+00:00

I mean probably, I'm very low maintenance. Just need someone to ask me how I'm doing every now and then and I'd be fine. I'm sure I'd inspire myself to do more things I enjoy like hiking/exploring more frequently so that would be a bonus. Also I'd have someone who'd understand my depression completely.

rlkkmopukd · 2020-01-24T15:55:27+00:00

No, I want someone with a more "feminine" personality

majani · 2020-01-24T15:59:48+00:00

I have good facial harmony, but average bone structure. If I was female, I'd give me a chance, but it'd take a couple of dates to peel back the layers and get convinced.

Whisper · 2020-01-24T16:02:34+00:00

Women can date themselves? How does that work?

Keletirios · 2020-01-24T16:04:02+00:00

Maybe.

I know what the female side of my family looks like and what gender swap apps have done to my face so I am marginally certain that my neotenous babyface would at least look pretty on a female body (especially if framed with bangs).

But I also know that if I had been born a girl, I would not have been afforded the same educational opportunities or encouragement that I myself have received. Given how instantaneous validation would have come for me, my female self might not even have pursued any of the critical thinking that I have done. Then again, female me might not have needed to do these things to be content with her life.

Also, if I was a girl I would probably have followed in my mother's footsteps and cheated on my partner(s).

So... I think the verdict is.. probably? My current low self esteem ass would probably think I deserved to date the kind of shitty but attractive woman embodied by my genderswap. But I'd break up with female me eventually because I know wouldn't be able to start a stable family with her.

Andress1 · 2020-01-24T16:09:36+00:00

I think men have much lower standards for women than women for men, so i would probably date Woman me but Woman me wouldn't date me lol

Rhye88 · 2020-01-24T16:09:50+00:00

if those apps are to be believed im hot but def not my type, so no

AndemanMan · 2020-01-24T16:12:53+00:00

If I was a woman, I can honestly say I would probably be the most obnoxious, arrogant, self-righteous preening queen bitch on the planet. I'd be one of those women who uses her husband like a butler. Just like my mother.

Karmanger · 2020-01-24T16:14:09+00:00

The female version of me would act like Hillary Clinton. So no I would not be able to date myself, we would be in different social circles.

p_and_q · 2020-01-24T16:44:02+00:00

I can’t honestly answer that because I have no idea what kind of person and what kind of life I would have lived as a woman. There’s way too many unknowns to honestly answer that question.

Just at a physical feature level how do physical features translate? As a tall dude, do I stay tall as a women. Is my height translated into the equivalent female attractive height. Or is height in men seen as the equivalent to cup size in women?

acron5n5 · 2020-01-24T16:59:08+00:00

I wouldn't, no real doubts here. Having to deal with myself everyday is already borderline insufferable.

feraxil · 2020-01-24T17:08:26+00:00

Zero percent chance. Unless the female version of me was fabulously wealthy.

There is only room in a relationship for one feraxil. two feraxils is inconceivable.

rus9384 · 2020-01-24T17:11:29+00:00

I don't date. I would be FWBs though.

NockerJoe · 2020-01-24T17:19:58+00:00

...yeah? I mean I know me. Assuming being a woman doesn't cause my brain to get bombarded with thought changing rays from Venus I'm fine with that.

prodopro · 2020-01-24T17:26:42+00:00

Oh fuck, that would be so nice

G77R23D · 2020-01-24T17:36:00+00:00

I'm pretty amazing, so yes.

MuleFool42 · 2020-01-24T18:17:29+00:00

Well, I'm awesome, so I would date me! :)

CandleLess · 2020-01-24T18:43:32+00:00

Yeah I would for sure

penguin_or_panda · 2020-01-24T19:37:38+00:00

Yep. I check the boxes. Successful, tall, cooks, cleans, good in bed, no baggage.

2020-01-24T20:00:31+00:00

Of course. I take care of myself. I know I have a nice body, I know I have money saved up, I'm still young, I got a future. This is an easy question.

MercyYouMercyMe · 2020-01-24T20:46:17+00:00

What am I gay?

Redpiller77 · 2020-01-24T20:48:34+00:00

I would fuck me because I'm not looking for anything serious.

Anthony-waltzs · 2020-01-24T20:52:06+00:00

Axehead88 · 2020-01-24T21:09:18+00:00

Of course I would, I am awesome.

shitposter69yolo · 2020-01-24T21:33:09+00:00

I'd say its 30/70.

Woman me is probably hot (excellent shape wasian), but also super ambitious so would only go for like top 1% of guys. Woman me also probably wouldnt lock down that guy, so there's a 70% chance Id be fwb with that guy, 30% Id meet guy version of me while single & horny (probably pissed off at 1% guy, or 1% guy isnt available to hook up), hook up with him, and get into a relationship with him.

ZytaxWarflame · 2020-01-24T21:45:54+00:00

I'd date myself now. Shit. I'm not perfect, but I do find myself interesting. Im a bit vain that way.

OmegaBaby · 2020-01-24T23:19:30+00:00

That loser? In your dreams.

MohamedSakhiri · 2020-01-24T23:28:26+00:00

Well women are mostly hypergamous, i would date as better as i can via selection of the competitive men around me.

SirNemesis · 2020-01-24T23:36:16+00:00

I’d happily date a female version of myself. A female version of myself would be way out of my league though, so she probably wouldn’t date me.

CHAD_TDK · 2020-01-24T23:47:14+00:00

I see where you're coming from, I just don't like the question, so I would tweak the answer:

I have always had high expectation from my woman (women), back when I was young it meant to be a Mr Nice Guy, stay out of trouble with the Law and other troubles, have a good job, be kind, polite, polished, generous, humble, to make a long story short, I was a simp. Oh well, that was my skewed perspective, two divorces and many relationships later; the principle is still the same, I try to be a good catch for the right woman, so:

I work out regularly at the gym and eat right, therefore I have a nice toned/muscular body. Not everyone's cup of protein shake, but I am only interested in women who workout and it shows
I have an MBA working on my PhD, I like a woman's mind, a shart intelligent mind.
I have a decent career in Business (high tech/software), I am tech-savvy (ex IT Director) and I am attracted to career women in STEM/Business
I am financially stable and finance savvy; I don't have anything in common with people who live paycheck-by-paycheck and are crippled with consumer debt, I expect the same from the women with whom I interact in an intimate level.

In a nutshell, I have a type in mind, and I tend to match my offering to what I am seeking; with good success.

So, some women have told me that I am asking ~~too much~~ a lot, and I agree, I ask a lot and I offer just as much, probably more.

binkerfluid · 2020-01-24T23:57:19+00:00

I wouldn't join a club that would have me as a member :-P

Grek27 · 2020-01-25T00:27:23+00:00

I would, I want a copy of myself tbh.

ridgecoyote · 2020-01-25T00:40:42+00:00

If I was a woman, I would date someone else. Dating myself is just to egotistical

Ryzasu · 2020-01-25T00:49:50+00:00

Yes I would without doubt! Me as a woman would be far better than anything I could ever get, both in terms of looks and personality. I would legit murder for someone like me

ThatQueerWerewolf · 2020-01-25T00:54:22+00:00

I don't think I could handle that level of anxiety. I need someone to balance me out.

77tuoemtae · 2020-01-25T01:35:48+00:00

Hell ya

KnightBeans · 2020-01-25T01:48:52+00:00

No, I don’t really think that I’m gold looking and shit, not to mention my less that great personality so probably not.

Logdog1987 · 2020-01-25T01:56:29+00:00

I could... but then again I know what’s important to a sustainable marriage.

ElGupo1978 · 2020-01-25T02:16:28+00:00

If you mean would I date a woman like me ? Yes , however a woman like me would be in such high demand that I would have a shot at her so no.

Now there is the question of a female version of me or how I’d act if I were a woman. If I were a woman I’d be the most evil a despotic cruel and inhuman bitch you could imagine,

a_nus · 2020-01-25T02:20:53+00:00

Hell yeah. Similar hobbies, health & fitness conscious, and decently attractive is all we'd need. Would be a bit strange if we looked too much alike though...

CentralAdmin · 2020-01-25T02:31:09+00:00

I'd be awesome to date! I'm fun to be around, good looking (or so the ladies tell me), funny, I'm great with kids, love reading, playing video games (this one alone would make me sought after), I'm thick and juicy in more ways than one as my SO calls me. I'm also very helpful and kind.

Oh, and since I been doing my squats, my twerking game is on point now. I even dress well. I put in 110% in when it comes to sexy time too.

My goals are to study a bit more and squeeze out a third degree or some sort of qualification if possible, and get more muscular in the gym. Maybe lose a little more weight in the process. I've already gained quite a bit of muscle but working towards an ideal physique - not too big, not too slender.

A-Merks-ican · 2020-01-25T02:41:12+00:00

I don't even recommend other people date me, but they just keep coming

hammerhaunts · 2020-01-25T03:06:41+00:00

Me, me

the-poopiest-diaper · 2020-01-25T04:42:17+00:00

Hell yeah I’d date myself. Someone with same exact interests and hobbies as me (which are very obscure). Someone to finally understand all the bullshit that comes out my mouth. But most importantly, someone who makes an effort to understand others in a meaningful way. That quality is so hard to come by

Talran · 2020-01-25T07:07:45+00:00

Absolutely. I'd be awesome.

Pastelitomaracucho · 2020-01-25T07:12:28+00:00

Pfffff totally me

But if I was a woman I would probably be that overachiever that can't find a man that is good enough for her

LonesomeSidLeon · 2020-01-25T07:30:30+00:00

The women in my Family tend to be beautiful, so Id likely be at least ok looking... but I have no interest in being intimate with someone just like me mentally and emotionally. It would bore the fuck right out of me.

_Neon_Shadow_ · 2020-01-25T07:38:19+00:00

Possibly.

joesmithasdf · 2020-01-25T10:27:45+00:00

I would date a woman version of myself but I doubt such a person would give the time of the day. Hypergamy.

Also, what’s considered attractive in women isn’t the same as in men, so she would be more attractive than I am. Stacy through and through.

thowaway_throwaway · 2020-01-25T11:11:17+00:00

Realistically, most women have sky-high expectations. This talk about how incels will only accept a 10/10 is kinda projection.

Women don't want to settle (unless they already have), so probably no.

This is why PUA type shit is important - guys need to sweep in before a woman can really take stock and make a warts-and-all assessment, because women will always think "Hmmm, not quite the perfect guy" if they know a guy too well.

clowned-dot-com · 2020-01-25T12:43:12+00:00

I would love to date my female self.

solaybrane · 2020-01-25T21:23:41+00:00

Women keep trying to. Based solely on the stuff you can observe through the first few weeks of knowing me, I can see why, honestly.

However, if I was an average woman, and if I knew current me's psychology, absolutely not. Because then I would know that the most I'd ever get was a couple of months of nothing, suffering of current me (because I don't fucking want relationships), and an experience of a slowly growing emotional distance.

MubutuDeezNuts · 2020-01-25T21:48:40+00:00

I’ve been trying to suck my own dick for my whole life. I’m pretty great.

Some girls agree with me, so I don’t think me being a woman would change it.

grand_tiremaster · 2020-01-26T10:35:43+00:00

The male version of me wouldn’t be able to attract me.. yea I’d date, try, but I’d have no chance.

fearpfbejng · 2020-01-27T02:03:22+00:00

I most definitely wouldn’t. I have no idea what my current girlfriend even sees in me.

All she says is that I’m a dork, but she loves me anyway.

Occma · 2020-01-27T10:27:36+00:00

I am not compatible with myself. But I guess your question is about physic only.

KotaroCrusher · 2020-01-31T02:09:44+00:00

No because that’s just masturbation with extra steps

WGttDS · 2020-01-24T14:24:29+00:00

Yes.

Bekiala · 2020-01-24T14:27:31+00:00

Never! But my life is set up that way since my teens.

Joey_Lopez · 2020-01-24T14:41:18+00:00

Yes I would

felis_magnetus · 2020-01-24T15:47:02+00:00

Hell no. I'd be looking for somebody compatible, not alike, of course. That would be boring af.

whytey12 · 2020-01-24T17:48:36+00:00

If I was a woman I would only date black guys

2020-01-24T16:06:37+00:00

Yes. And i would fuck myself stupid to make sure I'm completely satisfied. I'd also cook and clean for female-me (even though we don't live together).

Oh wait... Im describing one of my plates.

Eastuss · 2020-01-24T14:48:08+00:00

If I was really me as a woman, aka an INTP woman, yes. My sister who is mostly female me only dates men that are generally geeky introverts and average looking like me.

If I was symmetrically as girly as I am masculine, let's say, an ESFJ, it's highly probable I wouldn't even get to know someone like male me and I would be too high standards. But it's not like I would love such a woman.

Aaren_Augustine · 2020-01-24T15:53:38+00:00

No. I'm high maintenance and nuts. I'll die on any hill because I'm stubborn. I'm loyal to a fault but a dick.

But I know that's exactly why my wife hasn't left me. I'm her opposite even though we want the same things in life. I often remind myself that if my wife came to me and wanted a divorce I wouldn't blame her. I'd be shocked she held on this long, though if I was a bore THAT would be why she'd leave.

So I don't have much incentive to be middle of the road. Which means I'll exist either being way too good or a train wreck. Which are my only two modes anyways.

angels-fan · 2020-01-24T17:49:28+00:00

I would.

I'm kind of a catch actually...

Paranoidexboyfriend · 2020-01-24T18:19:32+00:00

absolutely. i have a great body and a great body really attracts me.

unkle_Rico1 · 2020-01-24T19:17:23+00:00

A highly attractive woman who is logical, loyal, works out, reads a lot, can cook, good in bed, makes a lot of money, intelligent, who also enjoys and is good at sports, video games, board games, and other fun trivial forms of competition? Ummm of course.

As a man I’m a 8 -8.5 / 10. As a woman I would be easily be at least a 15/10.

Teflon08191 · 2020-01-24T19:36:37+00:00

Obviously not.

Women don't date their (literal, in this case) equals.

Title	[Q4M] how many of you can honestly say that you would date yourself if you were a woman?
Author	eternitypasses
Upvotes	108
Comments	440
Date	January 24, 2020 2:16 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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