You show up to the party with your friends.

A bit nervous at first, you get a drink or two. You walk around, chat people up, but this whole time...

she’s been eyefucking you.

You pretended not to notice, not because you have outcome independence, but because you’re being weak.

She’s hot.

You know if you make eye contact, you’ll look away and you won’t hold. Your frame can’t take it.

plot twist: your inability to look at her, has registered in her mind as you being “too good for her”. She hasn’t noticed your weakness yet, and the lack of attention she’s getting from you makes her seek it out even more.

You talk to other girls, they’re all less attractive. What you don’t know is that they’re all her friends. And girls talk.

But you’re drunk, you’re flirting with them all, you’re fearless because they’re average at best, they don’t intimidate you.

She sees that, her hamster starts spinning out of control wondering why you aren’t talking to her.

Eventually, she makes the first move.

And it all goes downhill from there.

She tells you she likes your shirt. And as soon as she does, you immediately stop talking to all her friends and focus on her, 100%.

But you’re nervous, your eye contact is wobbly, you’re in a fucking daze because of the mere prospect of fucking the hottest girl at the party.

You make small talk, and then you keep talking, and talking, and talking...

Her pussy is drying up in real time, but your mouth just keeps going on and on.

Then, after a meaningless 2 hour conversation, she tells you she has to go home, right after checking her phone.

“But the party ends in 4 hours” you say to her.

“Yeah, but I have to go, I work early tomorrow. You’re sweet, it was nice meeting you”.

The funniest thing is, you never touched her once. Never made the conversation sexual once. You gave her hours of attention for free, but she got a text from Chad, and off she goes.

Work tomorrow? It’s Sunday tomorrow.

You were so afraid of messing up your chance with this smokeshow, who by the way isn’t special, and is really just another hairless ape like you, that you entered HER frame.

Your inner Billy Beta will always try to take over your mind.

But every man has an inner Chad, somewhere. Channel that, stop giving so much of a fuck, and stop talking.

TL;DR: She wants dick. You have a dick. Give her the dick, not a lecture.