Hey guys I need some advice on how to have less empathy. yesterday a new plate hit me up out of the blue asking me if I wanted to go to some water park with her during the day and it looked pretty dumb so I declined. She then hit me up again later in the afternoon telling me that she wants to see me and give me a massage and then sent me a picture of her tiddies. I told her sure and invited her to my apartment.
Anyways she gets to my place around 10:30 and starts shit testing me right away. I tell her I’m looking forward to the massage and she says that she’s too tired from the water park and got too sunburn or some shit (she actually was pretty fucking cooked lol). So we just start un-enthusiastically making out and she’s not into it. Eventually we fuck after 20 minutes of shitty foreplay and her telling me she is too tired for sex. It was the most boring half hour of doggy of my life it was like I was fucking a lifeless sex doll.
Anyways after this I’m pretty pissed and annoyed. I never got my massage and had some of the most boring sex of my life. It was Saturday night and a group of my friends were going to my favorite club and I was suddenly in the mood to join them.
So after i nutted, I sat on the bed for a minute, went to take a piss then began to get dressed. She looked visibly confused as to what was going on and I could see her hamster wheel begin to spin.
She asked me why I was getting dressed and I told her that she was annoying me so I was going out to the club with my friends, and that she had to go. Her face looked like I just murdered her brand new puppy. As I got out my phone to call her an Uber home she starts hugging me, kissing me, and crying.
I haven’t done anything this cold before so I couldn’t help but feel really bad about what I was doing. This girl packed a backpack to come over and was fully expecting to stay the night. Also, I actually really like this girl and find her to be really adorable . And it honestly broke my heart to see her crying on my shoulder as I was ordering an Uber. But I knew that if I didn’t hold frame she wouldn’t respect me and the plate would drop.
So I sent her home and then met up with my friends to go to the club. And I couldn’t help but have a shit time and ended up leaving early because I felt like too much of a dick for making this girl cry. She blew up my phone telling me she was sorry for being a bitch but I haven’t replied yet.
How do you guys block out blue pill and empathetic feelings that you get towards women. This is really an issue for me as I’m naturally a kind a caring person. Thanks
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