I'm male and ever since I was a teen I've concluded this to be the case. Horniness feels good but other than that it causes trouble. By desiring women sexually you're giving away your power to them since as a man you are "the buyer". Sexual drive is the strongest drive human beings have, but it ought to be sublimated/transmuted in order to achieve greater things than reproduction. Think about it, it a powerful, creative ENERGY that can be manifested into building ANYTHING with your consciousness. It can help you get rich or create amazing art if you are so inclined. It's a gift really, but it goes to waste if all your attention goes to women and jerking off. I mean is that ALL you want? To have sex with hot women? Don't you want more out of life, to be successful and thriving? Men who are continuously unable to control and transmute their sexual energy are weak and pathetic. If you think you are a mere animal then sure, sex and reproduction are the end goals for you and use utilise your free will to maximise getting sex but that is such a vain purpose as we are capable of being higher beings than that. I no it's not easy and it takes work but it is so worth it. This is in my opinion what makes men great.

I recommend anyone who's interested in this to check out this link about sexual transmutation and read Napoleon Hill's book Think and Grow Rich which expands on this subject.