I was spending time with a FWB last night and we were trying to find something to eat. She mentioned a place that had food I've never had before. I love trying new things so we went and I ended up loving it. She teased me saying "Wow, look at all of these new things I'm introducing you to." Although it was a tease, it made me think. With the past few women I've been with, I don't bring or contribute anything tangible to the table.

Whether I've asked them or it comes up during pillow talk, most women have mentioned they feel safe around me, I'm very masculine and give them the space to be a woman/feminine, and I have a good head on my shoulders that they find attractive. They also mention that I'm dominant in bed and it let's them be submissive, but their submissiveness was unlocked, not introduced. Everything they mentioned is intrinsic and can't be touched. I feel like a rock: solid, secure, but boring.

Am I doing something wrong? I feel like I should be adding something to their lives or introducing something new, but everything I think of is something that can't be seen or touched. Any advice/feedback?

Thanks in advance 🙏🏾