I met up with a chick from OkCupid. She picked a pretty high-end restaurant. I usually aim only to get drinks, but it was near her place and that was where I wanted to end my night. Everything went fine, drinks, laughter, making out, a little fingerbanging, etc. When the bill comes, however, it was not cheap. I ask her to kick in what amounted to about 20%, just so I didn't have to pay the more-than-expected full-freight. She flat-out refuses to do -- "I don't pay for drinks"..."Men should do this"...blah blah blah. It's not like when we talked I was like 'hey, let me take you out.' No, this bitch straight-up just shows up, eats and drinks like no tomorrow, and expects me to pay. Well, fuck that. I was pretty insistent that she help pay something and she refuses, point-blank. I leave to go to the restroom, slip out the back door, and leave her with the entire bill. I go home and masturbate. She sends me a couple angry texts, but whatever. My question is: How would you guys have handled this? Am I in the wrong here? I'm not sure if this was the best play...