Men don't deal well with female dominated environments because they tend to be hostile to men. Even when they aren't, men do not enjoy these environments because they are limited and boring and emphasise safety over creativity. They have to watch what they say. They have to fit in. There is no space for originality or masculinity. By definition, women wanting to create "safe spaces" is anti-masculine. Men don't do safe. Men test boundaries and constantly challenge each other. To women, that lack of security and constant one-upping is "a hostile environment." Basically men don't value how women hold court in social settings, and women don't value how men hold court in social settings.
But that isn't anger, it's a communication and social preference related to aggression.
Men's emotions are rarely validated, they just get told to suck it up. Every time someone talks shit about guys in the anger phase, I believe it's more of the same. Just invalidating male emotion. Shit most men invalidate their own anger with a bottle of whiskey. They've been taught to deny their own anger. And that ain't healthy. I won't go too deep on that right here, that's something worth blogging about independently with some more depth in the future.
People, especially women and manginas hiding behind a keyboard (people with low testosterone levels who would be useless in combat) love to talk shit about male anger from a place of elitist self-righteousness because it scares the crap out of them. If this sounds like you and there was an angry guy in front of you right now, absent a gun and the mindset to use it, you'd be the meek little thing that you are. You wouldn't dare talk.
I'm not trying to intimidate you, that is simply an axiom close to fact that will inadvertently intimidate a fragile mind. Women comment on something (male anger) from a perspective of fear and then ridicule it. They don't actually understand male anger at all, and the functional purpose it serves as being a cornerstone of masculinity.
They frame all anger as bad because that's the only time they give a shit about it. When a chick's man is angry and uses it to earn money by being aggressive in negotiation, she doesn't give a fuck. She'll even encourage it because it yields her benefit. Refer to Briffault's Law on the sidebar. She is selfish and only gives a shit about it when it damages her sensibilities because she is self-absorbed and lacks the capacity to abstract into a male point of view.
Men are great at abstracting. It is how you can raise an entire generation of men to act and think like women and hold feminine values. And then you have to try and convince them that everything is a lie and they have to start from scratch in life (which ironically, is often the source of much of the initial anger guys in TRP feel to begin with.)
Let me tell you something. A man's anger is more pure and more righteous than the average woman's tears ever will be. When men use anger to manipulate, it comes from a place of truth. It isn't a complete deception. Most women can cry on command, like a switch they flip. I trust an angry man more than a crying woman.
If guys want to be angry in TRP, to vent, or just talk some smack, good. They can't do it anywhere else. Unlike so many, I have empathy. I know how it feels to be frustrated and pissed the fuck off and just want to talk shit to some bros who will join in and talk shit with you rather than look down on you for being angry. Like it's not a legit emotion and you're just a cunt for feeling that way.
Most people aren't master stoics, and a lot of men don't want to follow that brand of "strong silent masculinity" either. They like righteous anger. They like the truthfulness, drive and the sense of power it yields. It's something you don't want to possess you - but it's an incredible force if you can learn to wield it with a degree of discipline.
I'm not in the anger phase. Haven't been for a long time, and yet I still like to post rants now and again. And every time someone will think I'm losing my mind and am right back in the anger phase because they're overly sensitive to aggressive communication. It's hilarious. I couldn't give a fuck. You just think I do because I choose to use anger to communicate sometimes. Do you need it spelt out why I fucking do that? It's because I appreciate anger, it's manly as fuck. I appreciate it's honesty. And I don't invalidate what men who are angry have to say. I don't look down on them for not being cold super-rational detached automatons. That's some psychopathic ass-shit. And every manly man I know likes to talk smack. It's part of who we are.
There's a lot of righteousness in anger. It can even be wise when it's articulated from experience. I give anger the respect it's fucking well due. The invalidation of anger is a feminine operative social convention. It is in women's interest to dismiss male anger, but it is in a man's to understand it and cultivate it. Anger is not this crazy and baseless thing you simply dismiss and invalidate. You don't talk it out like a faggot or pretend it's not there. You do something with it. Bottled up anger can drive you to insanity and suicide. Don't do that shit. Use it as a tool to build yourself up with. Anger is power.
Knowing how shit things are is half the battle. The other half is making yourself better in spite of the deck that's stacked against you. Pour your anger into something productive such as working out, reading and of course, getting money.
All the best gentlemen.
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