My younger bro turned 25 on the weekend. Woopty doo. Well for him it was an awakening but ultimately he will still be, and always will be a beta.

His stubborn ways will always do that. If you compare us, I am 28, 5ft 11, rather muscular (could lose a bit of bodyfat), reasonably attractive, self employed, rather stylish etc.

My brother if 5ft 7, balding, wears glasses, has the skinny fat body, terrible dress sense, and is classic "angry short man." Quit his job as an accountant to become a teacher.

For years I have tried to tell him about there being another way, a red pill way. He ignored me. He thinks building muscle in the gym "makes you fat." Or having a nice car is "materialistic." It's gotten sad over the years but his stubborn ways have ultimately been his demise.

I personally do not go out clubbing as often as I used to. I focus more on socializing with friends, and plates. So i pretty much work, workout, watch sports, hang with buddies, family and a plate for a meal/drink/fuck.

He however swears by it, until it was his birthday this weekend. He had booked some dingy bar in london, and organized the whole thing.

We started with predrinks and a bite to eat and headed down to the "hipster" part of town. Didn't think those wankers were still about.

We went there and he order several bottles of drinks, and we ultimately stayed in this shitty but "trendy" bar the whole night. His friends came and went, but it was the cab ride home that was the weird part.

Me and some of the other guys chatted to some girls, nothing major, but it was ultimately a huge cock fest. I had got laid the night before and my vibe for such places is always bad but I sucked it up.

So as we got home, my brother was close to tears. He was fuming. Livid. He threw his toys right out of the pram

Me: why are you upset?

Him: I've had enough, whats the point.

Me: In what?

Him: 7 of the girls I had invited didn't show

Me: So?

Him: So! Thats unacceptable I gave them an earful. Assholes, I hate them all I hate going out!

Me: I've been telling you that for months, theres more to life then getting drunk on the weekend... in a random place full of morons.

Him: No you don't understand, I was supposed to get laid. I was gna at least fuck one of these girls and none of them showed. Typical I hate my life bla bla bla

I mean to the general public this can be seen as a sob story. But to a RPer you can see the cracks instantly. A stubborn bluepiller feels entitled to get what he wants due to the disney propaganda shoved down their throats constantly.

He and myself are entitled to nothing. Sex from a woman, is earned. Period. However the mentality is the opposite. Him like most men believe because he's gotten a year older the world should stop and fuck him. But no offence to him, in the little effort in that year he has gone to improve himself (despite maybe him changing his career) is he any closer to fucking a girl? NO.

Did he approach anyone? No. Did he put too much emphasis in it? Yes. Is he going through a long drought? Almost definitely.

These sort of stubborn naive men (it pains me to see my brother like this) are what we all were at one stage. So take a moment to feel grateful for discovering this life changing subreddit.

The other factor is, being like this gets you nowhere. Literally nowhere. Moaning and groaning about being entitled to get laid because of a few candles on a cake is utter bullshit.

Women nowadays even a 7 and below need something. Whether its a bit of muscle on a guy, a car, a well dressed man, something. I am not saying he is unattractive, but he is making no effort whatsoever to better himself. Due to being well in the "rat race of life".

I know I may get asked "why haven't you tried to help him" and believe me I've tried. I do what works for me. I use tinder, and its gotten me more ass then ever before. On a budget too. Last year I used social media just to get laid. Occasionally I'll meet someone out but its rare these days considering the meat fest that is going to a club or bar.

So try to be less stubborn guys, it gets you nowhere. So does being a blue pill. Unless youre happy with that lifestyle. Which clearly someone like my bro isnt.