The other day my boyfriend randomly asked if I needed anything and I answered honestly that I didn’t. The question came out of nowhere and really threw me off and then right after he said “If you ever needed anything, you would tell me right?” I told him of course, but then it made me think well what are the things that are acceptable to even ask for? Sorry if all this sounds silly I just know it’s important for a man to feel needed and now I’m questioning if I’m giving off the impression that I don’t.
For background, we’re both 27 and we’ve been dating for almost 2 months. He’s by far the better than my last relationship. He takes care of everything when we go on dates, he’s incredibly affirming, our personalities click really well and im comfortable with him, and he often makes it clear, without my asking, where he stands with me and that he knows what he wants.
What are things you should ask your man for so they feel needed by you?
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