There are a few red pill truisms which come into play here:
- Men are the true romantics
- Iron Rule of Tomassi #6 : Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved. (I have found a work around on this one)
- Patrice O’Neil “You love me, and I like you”
If you read all 3 of those together you can see that it throws up a lot of issues and that all 3 of them are not entirely compatible. If you walk away accepting that 1. and 2. are wholly correct then you would be forced to accept that you can never get a women to be completely devoted to you, or to love you in a way that you find acceptable. I am an older guy and in my experience you absolutely can ensure that a woman loves you the way you want her to, and that is basically by applying Patrice O’Neal’s logic. I have used these tactics to ensure that any woman who I spend a lot of time with does give me all of herself. You must make sure that she loves you substantially more than you love her. This is like a carrot and stick scenario. You are a high value man who never openly gives all of himself to her. That way you dangle your full affection like a carrot but you never actually give it to her. I guess you could call this a form of passive dread.
This first step is to make sure that you are properly applying the 16 Commandments of Poon. You don’t need to check off 100% of the list, this is not a LARP for autards, but you need to make sure that you have most of the commandments checked off. The second step is to suppress your inner romantic. This guy is like a soy boy who hides inside your heart. He just can’t wait to declare his love, get down on one knee and ask her to marry him. You have to keep this guy well hidden. Trust me on this, you will only make her die a little bit inside if you act like that guy. Women have been fooled into thinking that they want a romantic and devoted man, this is a lie. What she wants is man who is too good for her, hypergamy is her true subconscious guiding light, it is her true nature and Hypergamy always look upwards. If she finds you are looking up to her, or even looking her in the eye then kiss your masculinity goodbye because you have lost the game.
However the reality is that most guys who lack experience are hardwired to be the true romantic. It comes very naturally to a man to be protective, loyal and to provide. Whether it is a biological program or a social program it still acts to turn most men into plowhorses or potential cucks. You do not want to be that guy. In the past I have had women who were in short term relationships and even women who I had just met physically attack other women who they thought were trying to move in on me. This is normally a male behaviour set yet if you play your cards right then you can have this sort of devotion from women. You can never let yourself give away the upper hand. You must always have one foot out of the door if you want true loyalty from a woman. Patrice O’Neal was right, if she loves you and you like her, then everything is peachy. If you come to her level, or even worse, act like a lap dog then it is all over, and you deserve it.
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